Personally, I think the house is essentially supposed to feel soft and there are several things stopping that from happening at this point. I think the white is perhaps too white? You might try something with just a little dirt in the color (i.e. grey and brown but still basically a white), and then I would paint the window frames and door frames a darker but still fairly neutral color - brown, dark blue with some grey and green in it, etc. I would get a different door. Your house has some very nice architecture and the shape of the glazing in the door doesn't relate. Find something maybe with a rectangular light in it; look at some arts and crafts doors to get a better sense. Change the garage doors to something more like a carriage door, and either do all of the doors in stained finishes or something in a medium to slightly dark value, (possibly the same as the window trim for the garage doors.) The entry area seems to have a very small stoop which I can't see very well but, if it were my place, I might consider building a porch that pretty much filled in that whole area with some columns at the front and creeping roses or something similar.