Decorate With Intention: Love Your Kids and Keep Your Style
Don't resign your home to kiddie characters and endless vinyl. New options let you design for high style and real life
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First it's the little plastic outlet covers, then safety gates and cabinet locks, and all of a sudden your not-so-little one is clambering over the furniture and creating "art" on the walls, windows and anywhere else crayons can reach. Rugs get crusted with Play-Doh, keyboards get ruined by rampant juice drinking, and pretty soon you start to wonder if you will ever have a stylish, pulled-together home again. The short answer is, yes. It may take a bit of extra planning and creative thinking, but there are some wonderful ways to build an elegant home that also caters to kids' needs. Here are 10 ways to get started right now.
1. Pair formal shapes with tough fabrics. Tailored furniture shapes (like wingback chairs and tuxedo sofas) feel fancier than loose, overstuffed pieces, so your space will instantly feel more pulled together. The trick is having them covered with hardworking fabrics: Neutral or dark colors, tough natural materials like linen and burlap, and stain-repellant fabrics will all hold up well against shoes, crayons and food spills.
Keep some stain remover on hand as well and be willing to live with a bit of imperfection. We live in the real world, not a museum — and it's much more fun that way!
Keep some stain remover on hand as well and be willing to live with a bit of imperfection. We live in the real world, not a museum — and it's much more fun that way!
2. Know that leather upholstery is a kid-friendly choice. Go ahead and get that sleek leather sofa or armchair you had your eye on, because it's actually one of the easiest materials to care for. Spills wipe right up, and a little wear and tear only makes it look better. Light-colored leather may stain more easily, and very delicate leather can get scratched up, but otherwise there is not much to worry about.
One of my favorite leather pieces is the superversatile Moroccan pouf (shown here). Used as a footrest, a coffee table or extra seating, it can fit in anywhere.
One of my favorite leather pieces is the superversatile Moroccan pouf (shown here). Used as a footrest, a coffee table or extra seating, it can fit in anywhere.
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| 3. Take advantage of the new indoor-outdoor rugs. Many of these new rugs (like the one shown here) are made from recycled plastics and can withstand spills with ease but look just like the real deal. Save yourself a lot of hassle by using these virtually indestructible rugs in areas that get a lot of use or are likely spill zones: the kitchen, dining room, entryway and playroom. |
4. Use walls and high spaces. Fragile vases and delicate table lamps may be out when you have young kids in the house, but you only need to look up to find your new design playground. Bold, deep wall color; fancy sconces and chandeliers; artwork; wall-mounted sculpture and any other wall decor pieces you can lay your hands on are fair game. Have a big collection of breakable trinkets? Install high shelving over doorways and windows to display your treasures out of reach of small hands.
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5. Go for wicker and rattan. They can take a beating and still look great. To get that simple-chic French country look (that's also resistant to spills), seek out sturdy pieces in wicker, rattan or sea grass, along with wood, tile and washable natural fibers like linen and cotton.
6. Bring outdoor fabrics in. The range of patterns and colors available for outdoor fabrics has expanded tremendously in recent years, making these sturdy fabrics much more appealing to use indoors. Try them on dining chairs, cushions in a breakfast nook or even on a sofa.
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7. Borrow design ideas from the wee ones. An indoor swinging bench is unexpectedly cool and fun for everyone, and chalkboard walls are just as useful for jotting down menus and shopping lists as they are for doodling. Get creative and invite a sense of play into your home; you may be surprised by what you come up with.
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8. Choose grown-up pieces for little ones' spaces. When it comes to designing a nursery or young child's room, I tend to veer away from furniture aimed specifically at kids. Real, grown-up furniture and lighting are perfectly appropriate in a child's space and will last far longer than something with a cutesy motif. Add the fun and whimsy with art and accessories instead.
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9. Set the stage for a stylish future with wallpaper, lighting and more. Just as with the furniture, it makes sense to decorate the shell of your child's room in a way that will still feel appropriate a few years down the road. Gender-neutral color schemes and prints tend to have the most staying power whether you have a boy or a girl. You can always tilt the decor in a different direction with your choice of bedding, nightlight, hamper and other accessories.
The yellow wallpaper and bright green overhead light make a fun, graphic statement in this nursery. The neutral area rug and gray door will be easy to blend into a new scheme if tastes change in a few years' time.
The yellow wallpaper and bright green overhead light make a fun, graphic statement in this nursery. The neutral area rug and gray door will be easy to blend into a new scheme if tastes change in a few years' time.
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10. Create instant elegance with symmetry. Matched pairs of furniture or decor arranged symmetrically make any space feel more pulled together — an especially impressive feat in an impossible-to-keep-clean kids' room. Even if toys and clothes are flung all over the room, when you glance in your brain will register the pair of chic upholstered headboards and crisp window shades, and you can tell yourself it's OK to ignore the rest, at least for now.
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Ideabook published on Oct. 1, 2012.
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We have both a 4 and a 17 year old. No matter what the age, I feel it's important for them to have a space they can call their own where toys can be out or friends sprawled out watching TV without concern if mom is going to freak out. I also feel its important for adults to have their space as well... No toys, or few that can be put away quickly, and done to their liking. A place where kids can respect that we don't just flop down or drink red koolaid in the room. :). Just my two cents.
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Tween girls are fickle and do not stay tween for long! I would get your fun and graphic result from paint, and some great graphic and inexpensive wall decor! Particularly in a steamy bath!
Also- I also train my kids that eating only happens in the kitchen if you are not an adult- and they can't
Leave the kitchen without washing hands. It's amazing how they learn if you make them. I have taught my kids that there are places to run and tumble ( the basement) and other places where you can't act crazy( the living room). They learn. They still read, play games, and watch tv in the living room- but they know that running , jumping, and balls go outside or in the basement. Perhaps we all just need to teach our kids to act like little kids and not animals! It makes me crazy when other people's children come over and jump off my furniture and the parents don't even notice. These are TEACHING MOMENTS people.
I am all for decorating a house even with little kids! It can be done.
We would all enjoy our homes more if children were taught basic rules from the very earliest age!
Bravo, Jan!