Style Secret: Soft LightingNothing snuffs out the flame of romance like harsh fluorescent overheads or megawatt track lighting. Cast a glow with fixtures that spread and diffuse light, such as wall-mounted sconces or elegant chandeliers. Crystal pendants add a touch of diamondlike sparkle, but there's nothing wrong with simpler profiles and less opulent materials. Subtle sweetness: Choose lower-wattage bulbs for a romantic glow. You can even buy the kind that's tinted pink, which gives off a warm ambience and imbues skin with an attractively flushed look.