We are building a house and our kitchen cabinets were installed last week. All along I have wanted milky white cabinets. I have learned that whites are very tricky. The cabinets turned out to be a much crisper white than I thought, very similar in color to this kitchen. When I first saw them all I could think is how white they are... but the color is actually really growing on me. I can't believe I'm saying this but I really like the whiter white a bit better. Anyways, I need to change our subway backsplash to a white rather than the off white I had picked out. Should I do a colored grout to break up all of the white? I'm thinking of whisper gray. My counters are not installed yet but they will be giallo ornamental and have a bit of gray in them. The other option would be to do white.