We just laid down our tile and we like it but they are a little darker now that we have them laid out. We have a tonge and groove ceiling that has a poly coat so the ceiling is a little dark. Our cabinets are white ('Thomasville cotton white). We were thinking of a slate color laminate countertop. We are struggling now with a wall paint color so it is not too dark and don't want to go with a white tone so it doesn't take away from cabinets. Any advice?