Since our kitchen is black & white, we went with white. Our cabinets are BM Gardenia, a warmer white than yours.
Here's a shot or two.

You need to figure out how much white you want in your new kitchen. Dove White is pretty bright, as is white subway tile.
While I'd be good with that, some may find it too bright.

You may be best served by picking up a dozen of each color tile and making a mock-up.