Hi
I'd say not white. I think the chrome would be better with your two choices.

If you're restaining, have you thought about a white/gray toned stain/wash? Kind of the distressed Restoration Hardware look. I've seen 80's oak kitchens updated with black counters (soapstone or look-alike formica), pale gray walls, brushed nickel handles, and it looks spectacular! Just a thought I had as I've been helping a friend with a similar dilemma.

Definitely chrome or brushed nickel instead of white (IMHO). We had 80's oak cabinets and white appliances in a previous home. We replaced the original brass knobs with white ones. They made the the oak cabinets look more dated by standing out (not in a good way :) A few years later, we did a minor redo. I lightly sanded the cabinets and stained them a few shades darker and replaced the white knobs with brushed nickel. MUCH better.

Chrome or brushed Nickel is my vote.
And Gel staining is an option too.
~boxer

We like our shiny chrome pulls with unstained oak cabs. You need some interest to rival that strong wood grain.