I am looking to repaint the two rooms pictures (in ideabook Beach House). One is the kitchen (clearly) and one acts as the living room/dining room/family room. The kitchen is a little bit awkward and I'm going for a clean look. Should I paint the kitchen area a gray (if so any suggestions using BM paints) and then paint the kitchen cabinets Decorator's White. I am seriously considering painting the walls in the living room all white dove with decorator's white ceiling (there is no trim in the living room). If I paint the living room white dove (with decorators white ceiling) should I just using the same color scheme in the kitchen since the two rooms open up into each other. If so should the cabinets be white dove or decorators white- and what about the trim? Any thoughts of painting the cabinets a light gray and then the rest of the wall white dove (like the living room)-- if that's the case what color do I paint the trim? I also liked antique white (by BM) when I tried it on the wall- it seemed very warm- is it too pink. The over all look I want it clean and coordinated. I want a wall color that is noticeably different from the ceiling but not cream or too yellowy.

Gray kitchen cabinets (then white dove for wall color or decorators white) or gray accent wall in kitchen?
I have posted pictures of the rest of the rest (from different views). The appliances in the kitchen are white. And the big purple sofa chair is getting reupholstered with Magnolia Home Fashions JAVA YACHT. Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance!