How about a cool light grey?

We had the similar colors and went with Montpelier Madison White at Lowes and we love it! It was a drastic change but everything looks so bright and clean now and I get compliments on the color all the time :) Depending on the time of day it has a grey, blue/greenish tint but it is very neutral. Good luck!

I would say maybe a really light tan/ white color...

Maybe a cream/butter tone on the walls, then punch up color with pillows, drapery panels, and accessories to downplay the browns a bit.

Valspar has a color called pink chocolate .... It's a beautiful neutral color

Candice Olson uses Benjamin Moore paints exclusively.... I recently bought her $15 fan deck of Candice's 60 favorite neutrals. Get it!! It was the best $15 I ever spent. She has awesome neutrals in the color shade you're looking for.... such as Gray Owl and Old Prairie. And now as I go through the house updating, all the colors flow from room to room.

Go to the paint store get about 4 sample cans and put on your walls. Anything will be better than orange. Paint all one color no accents walls. I like pewter by BM.

I think a sage would be pretty