Need help with choosing 3 paints colors for our house to go well with cabinet colors

and tile colors chosen. Our kitchen and living room face north, dining room faces south. We have 10’ ceilings on bottom floor and bedroom have cathedral ceilings. The cabinets color is “fog” and the island color is a darker color “dusk”. Our fireplace has shiplap and is going to be same color as trim. We have dark gray couches.

We want our house to feel big but also feel cozy if that’s possible. We like grays but don’t want to over do it and have the house to feel to “cool”.

If you could give me advice on Sherwin william paints that would be great.

Ideas on fixtures would be great too.

Thanks!