What??? I don’t understand the question. You ask about a deck off the upstairs and then a patio off the kitchen which I assume is on the ground floor. You need to provide more info and pictures of your house.

Normally the term "patio" is used to describe an at grade outdoor recreational space.

The term "deck" could mean either an at grade exterior structure or an elevated structure.

The OP needs to clarify intent.

I believe that the OP is looking for house plan for a small 2 story farmhouse that has either a patio or a deck off of the kitchen.

Here are a few of ideas to get you started:

https://www.familyhomeplans.com/plan_details.cfm?PlanNumber=60102&OrderCode=GOEXP&CouponCode=FREESHIP

https://www.eplans.com/blog/small-farmhouse-plans-fit-for-fall

Without the OP responding how would we know what the question is.

If I don't understand the OP's question I sometimes make up my own question and answer that. And I am always right.

I had a client that owned a farm (mooo!) house that I did some remodeling and an addition for. They threw lavish parties and had a second floor door that lead to a roof area above part of the first floor. Part of the parties too place on that roof, but my client and his guests kept falling off the roof (which did not inhibit them from partying on the roof), but my client came to the conclusion that a deck built in place of the roof was in everybody's best interest, and that was part of my scope of work.