What are you asking us to vote on? These are photos of the same room.

You want to make this "modern and "girly" Pinks, purples, gold.

You have a sea of brown. You have a child. what it=s your budget? Can you buy new seating to remove the charcoal/ brown? Could you get new dining chairs? What art do you have, it is all leaning. Can you get rid of blinds? Is this the paint color you want?

Every stick of everything is brown and we really can't see the rug......

Probably the first thing to worry about , budget wise, is replacing tile counter tops with a solid surface : )

We can't really see the sectional, or the rug. Can you rotate it? Can you buy a larger rug? What about a coffee table?

The tv needs the correct bracket and to be mounted on the wall.

Not a Pro.

Is this your home or a rental?

If you are on a budget and cannot replace your furniture, the biggest impact is art with the colors you desire. That alone would bring a lot of life to the room.

Some inspiration:

Large Abstract Canvas Modern Acrylic Painting - 40x40 - Abstract Organic Shapes · More Info

Coffee table......

Unique Area Rug, Two Toned Polypropylene With Abstract Pattern, Pebble/Ocean · More Info

Yes, I can see all that with the playpen and highchair : )

Dear........ begin with a budget :

Post this under Design Dilemma for the best help. It is not a poll.

Can you re-post the pictures so we can see them more easily?

What is going to stay in the room and what are you planning to purchase or replace? What is your budget? Can you paint the walls?

It would be helpful if you could post pictures of living rooms that you like in your idea books.

If you are keeping the brown seating, you could add pink but I can't see purple with it. Are you thinking of bright pink accents? Or maybe a blush pink for the walls?

Here is a possible colour scheme. https://www.fabmood.com/inspiration/earth-tone-colors-for-bedroom-mauve-blush-grey-gold-accents/