I guess some pictures of the lights on at night on your house to answer the question. IMO the whole point of outdoor lighting is to light the space or at least the entry and some high lighted trees or plantings.

I will try to take a picture this evening thank you...

The light bulbs are too bright and white. I would like something more subdued. any suggestions would be appreciated.

Here are guidelines for outdoor lighting:

https://www.darksky.org/our-work/lighting/lighting-for-citizens/lighting-basics/

In the meantime, our condo uses 3 watt LED bulbs like these in our courtyard. They are plenty bright: AED A15 LED Light Bulbs, 25-30W Equivalent, 250 Lumens, 2700K Warm White, E26 Medium Screw Base

LED, 2700K, 200 to 400 lumens (that's 25 W equivalent to 40 W equivalent). With as many lamps as you seem to have, I think 200/lumens per lamp would be adequate. Sydney's suggestion of a dusk-to-dawn sensor is a good one. There are lamps that come with this feature built-in, or you can get adapters that screw into the socket that have the photocell and control. separate from the lamp

So perfect!!! Thank you so much for your help!!!