Try some other sources. I know it was about 3 years ago, but I got oil rubbed bronze bathroom fixtures with no problem. The shower curtain rod does not need to be the same brand/model as the rest of the fixtures - find something with a general design and not fancy for this item. It should fit in fine. In fact, I think I ended up doing this anyway, because I wanted a curved shower curtain rather than a straight one - to give any shower-er more room.

Thanks! For 3 days I have searched on every website I could find, and I would be ok with another brand. But I want it as a fixed mount and straight (I know, how boring!)
What brand did you end up with?