We are building our dream home. It is a 2 story farmhouse with a wrap around porch and black standing seam roof. We currently live on the property in a 2 story carriage house that is barn red. I love the look of the white farmhouse, but my husband likes gray. I don't mind gray, however, I like the warmer grays whereas he likes the traditional gray. He thinks my picks are beige & I think his look like vinyl siding. Any suggestions for compromise gray colors (and/or defense of white) that would compliment the barn red? Thanks!