I'd go with either a pale sage or the blue gray.

Here's a kitchen we did recently in Benjamin Moore's Heather Gray with Simply White Uppers:

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But I also like the gray/blues. I'd go even grayer than the photos you show:

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I agree with Sabrina, sage green or blue gray.

Jenna Bush Hager's kitchen. Benjamin Moore "Wedgewood Gray" on cabinets and "White Dove" on trim, Waterworks glazed tile, Ferguson brass fixtures, Top Knobs cabinet hardware.

That's a cute little nice-sized kitchen.

Personally, I'd go with sage green ... then go with red accents in the adjacent dining room. Those two colors can be good friends.

I would also go with a sage color; classic and neutral! When I had my bathrooms redone, I chose sage colored vanities and love them. You can mix various colors with sage too: pinks, reds, yellows, creams, and salmon.

What makes your heart sing? Most people have a preference for true blues or blue greens.

I have a lot of blue greens in my home and virtually no true blues. In my closet I may own 2 or 3 blue shirts and a dozen blue green.

My sister in law has blue eyes and wears blue all the time. My sister has olive toned skin and never wears blue and wears more true greens than blue greens.

Even if 50 people say you should pick blue green, if it isn't what you love best it won't make you as happy as the color you love.

I'm painting my kitchen cabinets purple - don't expect the whole world to love my choice, but it works with my home and my other colors.

I'd go with the sage color. The pale blue is lovely but might feel cold in the New England winter.

B.M. Van Cortland Blue is a color to consider. I love with white counters.

If I wanted light, I wouldn’t pick gray.

is your light northen? typically more blue which is going to turn Parma Gray somewhat lavender

this shot it looks more light blue, but the cabs in the foreground have the purplish tint.

I would seriously get some sample doors painted and place them in your lighting.

Borrowed Light is pretty

love the BM Providence Blue

Please, no periwinkle blue. Dusty blue would work great.

what's the rest of your house like? Your colors are pretty different to me - a lot of pastels and some moodier blues. I agree with @Jennifer Hogan, what does your heart tell you? I'm completely drawn toward moodier blues - I live in Boston in a 100+ yo house so I get it - and so I love Stiffkey Blue, but what do YOU want?

I always gravitate to blues, and even though the blues you shared are gorgeous, I think I really like the pale greens. I really liked that Teresa's green.

It seems you're getting a different vote with each new post.

If it helps, I do think they're all very nice but my vote is that green.

My vote goes to BM Gentle Gray. So lovely! I couldn’t resist pairing it with artwork.

I have no idea what the rest of your house looks like but I like the blue...

chinacatpeekin Thanks! What a gorgeous kitchen! So helpful to see Blue Green IRL.

Beth H. - Thank you! My kitchen windows face south to southeast, but they don't get quite as much light as you'd expect because of the location of nearby trees. I did notice some of the blues turning lavender, but not Parma. The biggest issue I had was the murkier/more complex colors getting totally washed out into nothing - like Mizzle.

elcieg Thanks! I love Van Cortland Blue - it's currently the color of my front door! Quite a bit darker than that photo, though, and it just wasn't a top pick compared to the other dark blues with the marble.

Sabrina Alfin Interiors Thank you! I like sage and tried many samples, but ultimately preferred the fresher, cooler tones of the slightly minty greens. I've always preferred cool colors with accents of warmth (e.g., natural wood shades, a textured camel colored rug, etc.) than to make warmer colors the star of the show. Secondarily, I was a little hesitant on sage specifically because it's been a top trending kitchen color for a while now. Those are gorgeous kitchens though! And thank you for the additional suggestions on medium blue/grays!

Sally T Thanks Sally! Wish I knew what I wanted...this would be a lot easier. I like all three options and think each can work in the house. The rest of my house is not a great gauge because it will change after the renovation, but my tiny living room is... blue and green!

Your dark blues are over powering, your greens seem too minty dental office. Your greys blend well with what I see of your dining room but may feel to blah in the winter. Explore FB greys with green undertones or olives. These look radically different depending on the light. Purchase a samplize wall swatch of each of these 3 colors and tape them to your walls in different locations and at different times of day

Pigeon

French grey - gorgeous

Treron

Good color study post here on French Grey cabinets in different light.

http://moderncountrystyle.blogspot.com/2014/03/colour-study-farrow-and-ball-french-gray.html

Also a good inspiration post - 12 F&B colors for the perfect English Kitchen

https://laurelberninteriors.com/2020/05/17/12-farrow-and-ball-colors-for-the-perfect-english-kitchen/ 

Hope you post after pics. Looks like a beautiful space in the making.

@HU-918119203 - I love your house! It's so warm and inviting - super curious where in NE you live! I'm outside of Boston and love my 1920 center-entrance colonial.

Sally T Thanks so much! I live in Fairfield County, Connecticut... so just barely "New England." The house is very cool - it was built as a barn in the 1800s, then converted to a house in 1900, though you probably wouldn't guess it was once a barn unless you knew.