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Travel report: Thailand solo trip

last year

I've enjoyed the travel shares from everyone here, and thought I'd offer one from a recent trip. I've done a lot of solo traveling, but my recent travels were family oriented. I'm a recent empty nester (sort of), and had time in May when I could work remotely. For a variety of reasons, I ended up going to Thailand. It was very last-minute (my cc shows I booked my flight on April 19).

I had not been to Thailand previously, and I divided my time between Bangkok, Chiang Mai (northern Thailand) and the island of Koh Samui. I chose Koh Samui over Phuket (the most popular beach destination) for many reasons, but weather in May was the primary factor.

I spent a week in Bangkok, and I enjoyed the city more than I thought I would. On my first day, I visited the Chatuchak market, a 35-acre, busy, hustling market.

Here are some sink bowls on display. They are just a drop in the bucket of what this market offered. So many beautiful things.



I stayed in the Old Town of Bangkok, in a sweet little bed and breakfast. It was run by a young Thai man who made the most delicious breakfasts...



In fact, his breakfasts were some of the best food I had in Thailand. When I complimented him, he said he simply woke up every morning to see what his mother made for breakfast, went to a market to get the ingredients, and came to the hotel to make the same dishes.

I visited the usual Bangkok tourist spots. The wats (Buddhist temples) were beautiful, but most were overrun by young Asians taking social media photos. There are photography businesses set up around the city to rent traditional Asian dresses to young women, who can then have their professional photos taken with the wats in the background for IG, TikTok, etc. I captured one photographer giving posing advice at a popular temple, Wat Arun...



Social media is impacting everyone, everywhere. In fact, I also saw several Buddhist monks scrolling their smartphones.

My favorite time was in Chiang Mai in northern Thailand. I took a fantastic cooking class:



I hiked and enjoyed waterfalls, including one interrupted by buffalos. (Yes, I got out of the water!)



I ate street food from a market visited by Anthony Bourdain. While I love Thai food, I didn't eat much street food because of the intense heat.

I spent time on the island of Koh Samui. My favorite was an excursion to Ang Thong National Park. Kayaking, snorkeling, hiking to a saltwater lagoon, beautiful scenery.




My trip included 10 flights total, and all went without a hitch. I booked 5 stays, and only 1 proved not to be at all what was advertised. After my first night there, I left and booked at a little bungalow on the beach with an open-air shower.

I traveled solo and met some really wonderful people from all over the world. I packed very light--just a carry-on and a small backpack so that I didn't have to check luggage. The Asian version of Uber is called Grab, but I did more walking than riding. The food was so good, and the massages were amazing. On my last day before my long flight home, a tiny, tiny older Thai woman made my body stretch in ways I didn't know it could! It was a great trip.


Comments (41)

  • last year

    Sounds fabulous. I admire you. I have never traveled solo.

    Feathers11 thanked badgergal
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    Feathers, wow! Your trip looks and sounds amazing! How awesome.

    I really enjoyed reading about your experience, thanks for sharing!

    PS: You’re beautiful and have great arms. :)

    Feathers11 thanked Jilly
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    Thank-you so much for sharing! IT sounds like you had a wonderful trip around Thailand.

    Feathers11 thanked blfenton
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    That sounds like a terrific trip. One of the YouTube sailing channels that I follow was just in Koh Samui on their way from Vietnam to Phuket to ship their boat to the Mediterranean.

    Feathers11 thanked Fun2BHere
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    Wonderful report of a very ambitious adventure, Feathers! You are clearly fit and active with lots of initiative. Did you work mostly in the evenings? Were you ever concerned for your safety, especially in the accomodations? Did you stay in AirBNB’s and hotels both and did you find reviews pretty reliable? I’ve gone on a few solo trips but the most outre was Copenhagen 🙄 I didn’t mind traveling solo fifteen or twenty years ago; now it would be harder at my age but easier to plan. There’s a lot to be said for doing exactly what you want to do, when and as you like.


    Thanks for posting about your trip and for the pictures— Jilly’s 100% correct, those arms!!



    Feathers11 thanked Kswl
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    What a wonderful trip, Feathers! Such unique experiences. Thanks for sharing it with us.

    And i agree….you are in fabulous shape. Your arms tell all.

    Feathers11 thanked OutsidePlaying
  • last year

    Wow such a great trip and a superb trip report.

    I'm impressed, You most definitely seized the moment.!

    Feathers11 thanked salonva
  • last year

    Feathers, what a wonderful experience. I love that you did this solo and had an all-round fabulous time.

    Feathers11 thanked Bunny
  • last year

    It sounds like an awesome trip!

    Feathers11 thanked porkandham
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    Wow! The sinks are just BEAUTIFUL works of art! The food looks AMAZING! The water looks refreshing from the heat you experienced. It's on my list of places to visit. Thanks for sharing the beautiful photos.

    Feathers11 thanked User
  • last year

    Wonderful! Thanks for sharing your trip with us.

    Feathers11 thanked Annie Deighnaugh
  • last year

    This is amazing! What a trip! Thanks for sharing and for the inspiration!

    Feathers11 thanked legomom23
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    Good for you! It sounds like a fabulous trip and the photos are amazing. I'm impressed that all 10 flights worked without a hitch. What beautiful sink bowls. Did you bring back an exotic souvenir from your trip?

    Feathers11 thanked maire_cate
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    Wow what an amazing trip -- and I am so impressed that you did it solo! A new country, a different language, adventure! Such a great experience-- and accomplishment-- on so many levels. So glad you were able to make it happen in May! And last minute!

    Your photos are beautiful and love your trip report! I also love the sinks!

    You have been sharing that you feel strong on the healthy lifestyle progress thread-- well, you look strong and fit too!

    Thank you so much for sharing with us!

    Feathers11 thanked Funkyart
  • last year

    What a wonderful trip, and solo to boot! My brother lived in Chiang Mai for a few years and loved it, and all of Thailand. It was during a difficult time here at home with our parents so I could never visit. He said the best time to be in Chiang Mai is October, the weather is beautiful, and the worst time is a stretch in spring because they burn the fields. In fact, the school where he worked had special programming for those ”red days” to limit everyone’s time outdoors.

    He had said he would retire there, but after covid I think he was just ready to come back.

    Feathers11 thanked bpath
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    I am speechless and so admire what you did. Beautiful photos and beautiful you!

    Feathers11 thanked Arapaho-Rd
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    What a wonderful trip and I want one of those sinks!

    Feathers11 thanked Kitchenwitch111
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    I love your adventurous spirit!


    I'd like to hear about the cooking class. Northern Thailand is famous for one of my favorite dishes -- Khao Soi.

    Feathers11 thanked Judi
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    Feathers, what ana amazing trip. Thanks for sharing. You are a brave soul to go alone.

    Feathers11 thanked dedtired
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    This is right up my alley. I would love a trip like this. Sounds absolutely amazing!

    Feathers11 thanked ilikefriday
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    Thank you, everyone! I thank Funky for my arms... her weekly Healthy threads and the other inspiring contributors there, keep me accountable.

    Kswl, yes, I worked mostly evenings and early mornings, and my workload was relatively light. I had reliable internet most everywhere, and where I didn't I was able to get a hotspot connection from my phone.

    I booked accommodations through a combination of Booking . com and Airbnb. I studied reviews and neighborhoods before booking, and crossed referenced with Google and TripAdvisor reviews. Only 1 place was a fail, from Airbnb. But I never felt unsafe. My sister's (female) partner and a college roommate have both traveled extensively in Thailand. It's a well-oiled machine in terms of travel.

    Booking . com search criteria, once you indicate you are traveling alone, will highlight ratings from other solo travelers. And the Grab app (rideshare app) offered the option, in some places, for female drivers. I thought that was dangerous for the drivers, but I had downloaded the app before I left home to set it up with my credit card, etc., and I believe I had to share my photo and other information so it was evident I was female, too.

    Maire-cate, I was so grateful my flights all went well, and I think I flew 5 different airlines. I had to practice some severe restraint in terms of souvenirs, and I didn't want to have to drag around an extra suitcase. I bought my kids some fun items from markets. My "souvenir" to my friends will be cooking Thai dishes for them that I learned. For myself, I brought home Cascara Tea (tea from coffee shells) from a village in northern Thailand that specialized in coffee. I bought a few clothes that I found I needed (had to ditch a few that I didn't). And I fell in love with the color of these coasters, easy to pack, too. They're now part of my morning coffee routine.



    Bpath, I can see how your brother would consider retiring there, especially in Chiang Mai. I'm glad he enjoyed it. I had missed the spring burning by a couple of weeks. These are fields about an hour outside Chiang Mai, and you can see a bit of the new growth beginning after the burning:



    I lost count of how many wats (temples) I visited, but I was always amazed the ornate detail of them. They were just beautiful, and any photos I could share simply wouldn't do them justice. This one below was a few blocks from my hotel in Bangkok, and I roamed around the grounds, but did not enter the wat itself because it was prayer time, as you can hear, at the time of my visit. (eta, the photo below is supposed to be a video in which you can hear monks chanting, but the video will not load).



    The only wat I could not enter (see below). I'm in menopause, but could not find a menopause exemption. ;-)



    Judi, I will post separately about the cooking class, and copy the Cooking forum on it. It was my favorite part of the trip.

  • last year

    Wow, I am impressed and agree with everyone else’s comments. What a great experience. The farthest I’ve traveled alone is from Boston to NC!

    Feathers11 thanked Sueb20
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    What a great trip. Still haven't started booking Solo-Japan yet, but I did already book my hotel for Solo-Paris next May (on points). While friends are welcome to join me in Japan, they are expressly not invited to Paris😂 Targeting Japan for October, so will start serious planning soon.

    Feathers11 thanked 1929Spanish-GW
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    Hoping you'll share about both trips, Spanish, and good luck with the planning. What are your resources of information for solo travel?

  • last year

    So, for Paris I’ve been many times and simply want to go an exist there for 10 days.

    For Japan, I haven't placed a focus on solo travel research. I stay at big box hotels mostly for the points, air conditioning and guarantee that some folks will speak English, so it mostly comes down to locations. I have a number of friends’ itinearies and will reach out to a friend who has lived there. I’ll also probably plan a few day tours with small groups, which I wouldn’t do otherwise.

    Despite being a million mile flyer and frequent solo business travel, I’m still navigating my travel style for new destinations while making peace with the fact that any travel now is solo due to DH’s health.

    Feathers11 thanked 1929Spanish-GW
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    Feathers. I’m in awe of your travels. DD lifts heavy weights. She was amazed at how much hard work it took to get her arms in shape, so with that knowledge, I’m doubly in awe of your arms!

    Feathers11 thanked bbstx
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    Yay for your daughter, Bbstx! Encourage her to stick with it.

  • last year

    Beautiful pictures, beautiful country, and beautiful you! Your trip sounds wonderful. I traveled solo for work of course, and whenever I found myself in an interesting international destination, I would time my business obligations so as to allow 3 or 4 days as a tourist. A month of solo travel is next level! Good for you. Have you done a month long solo trip before? And do you have the next one teed up yet?


    !929, So sorry to hear about your DH's health.

    Feathers11 thanked mtnrdredux_gw
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    Wow, I'm very impressed. I have only traveled solo for work and even then, very rarely. I know that I would not be able to go to a foreign country with a foreign language alone. I know myself and I wouldn't enjoy myself, but I am always so impressed by those that do it.

    Your trip sounded wonderful. Thank you for those beautiful pictures.

    Feathers11 thanked jsk
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    Mtn, I spent several months doing the proverbial backpacking through Europe on my own after college. All of my travels since then (except work-related) have been with family/friends, and for shorter durations.

    If I'm able to get away for another extended period in 2025, I'd like to explore South America. Depending upon weather, I would start in the Patagonia region, and head north through Chile and Peru. I still have a few more treks left in me, and that trip would include 2 of them.

    Do you have any suggestions?

    Jsk, the language wasn't a problem at all in Thailand. I learned a few Thai phrases ahead of time (please, thank you, etc) but English was written/spoken most places as the preferred secondary language after Thai. So, for example, when riding the subway and airplanes, instructions were first given in Thai (or Japanese--I flew a Japanese airline a few times), and then repeated in English.

    I'm an introvert, and found traveling by myself to be peaceful. But an extroverted friend texted me about a week into the trip and asked, "Aren't you getting lonely?"

  • last year

    Wow, thank you for sharing your pictures and travel experience. Thailand looks like a wonderful place to see and I am in awe of your solo traveling. I wish I had the nerve to do it! In the meantime, I'll live vicariously through you. Beautiful shots!

    Feathers11 thanked orchidrain
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    Fantastic photos; thank you for sharing them, and telling us about your trip. After my husband died and once both my kids left for college in 2014, I began traveling solo fairly regularly, mostly to Europe for 2-3 weeks at a time. For the most part I do enjoy it, although I miss having company at dinner sometimes. My latest solo trip was a month in France (my favorite) two months ago; my DS joined me for the last 10 days, so it wasn’t entirely solo. I am very comfortable as a solo traveler in Europe, but have never ventured to Asia; Japan is where I want to go in 2025…and back to France, too, of course!

    Feathers11 thanked chinacatpeekin
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    Chinacatpeekin, thanks for sharing that. Dining alone, I find, can be challenging, too, because there's no one there with you in that new experience. I rarely dine alone locally at home, just because I don't have to because I either cook for myself at home, or dine out with friends and family.

    I love France! And Japan would be a conducive culture, too, for traveling.

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    That's good to know about the signs being in English as well as the local language. That would certainly make me more comfortable.

    I too am an introvert, but I don't know that I'd like to travel alone. Many many years ago I went on a business trip with my exDH. He had a work dinner thing one night so I went to the hotel restaurant by myself for dinner. I was so miserable and didn't enjoy it at all. After that, it was room service if I was alone. On the other hand, I did enjoy my days to myself to walk around and shop, but it wasn't a foreign country.

    Feathers11 thanked jsk
  • last year

    Feathers, I envy your courage traveling alone. I've heard Thailand is a beautiful place. And you're so pretty!

    Feathers11 thanked Oakley
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    Thank you, Oakley 😊


    Girlnamedgalez, I wish you happy trip planning! That’s part of the fun. I very much enjoyed traveling on my own and hope you will, as well.

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    Girlnamedgalez, I wish you well in planning your solo trip tp London. Before retirement I often traveled for business to London, and many times it was solo. Whenever I was there over a weekend I made a point to do some sort of tour or to get out and see or do things. The London Walks tours are a very easy way to see and hear about different things in the city with a guide. I also did a couple of day tours outside the city with Evan Evans tours via bus. At the time i did the tours the bus would pick you up at your hotel and drop you off at or within a few blocks of your hotel at the end of the afternoon. And of course there are so many sights, museums and galleries to keep you busy in London itself.

  • last year

    Thank you Feathers11 and OutsidePlaying!!! I am very much looking forward to seeing London & the surrounding area. I am in the beginning stages of making my plans. I will be boarding a 10 day cruise of the British Isles in South Hamptom with several days in London prior to the cruise. I will look into the Evan Evans tours for sure.


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    Is this the notorious Alex Jones?

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    I did a similar solo trip and loved every minute of it. If you're thinking about extending your adventure beyond Thailand, I highly recommend looking into komodo island tours. I added that to my trip after Thailand and it was such a cool contrast—calmer pace, gorgeous nature, and the boat rides between the islands were unforgettable. It all felt super chill after the buzz of Bangkok and Chiang Mai.

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