it's not too big.

But it’s a lot of white. Is that what you want? I don’t know what other colors you have in LR or DR, but I would try to bring some color into the kitchen. Even the taupe color on bottom right would add interest.

I have mostly beiges and black accents its a small townhouse 900sq.ft. Still a work in progress only been here 2 years

Waht is the counter material? Where is the hood for the range ? I would trully use a colorin that space if you want neutral for th backsplash then for some accent there and in the LR. Maybe those pillows witha bit of print and color to start . Looks like you are a bit older and love the country style so maybe a yellw or blue cookie jar in the kitchen . I would do the BS as high at the space behind the sink all the way around except for behing the range all the way up to the cabinets before you install the hood as for color how about some nice glass tile in a blue like the kettle

Not what you asked but is there any way to get a pice of trim from the upper cabs to the ceiling? This is a pet peeve of mine when it creates that dark shadow above the cabinetry.

I agree maybe the greige on the top row if you do not want to add a COLOR-color something different from white would be nice!

I think your tile choice is very nice in any of those colors. I am curious on the tiling from the ledge behind your sink to the upper cabinets on the right of the sink. What is the best way to marry those heights?