Can you add pictures of the face to show tone options and grain. What wood is used and what manufacturer. You can look at Euro Oak cabinets from Spanish maker DOCA. Link. They have showrooms in NYC, LA, San Diego and others. Or IKEA Vendamn which are made in Hungary using European Oak. If you want to find a Euro Oak floor to match or compliment an available cabinet look at Hakwood for a broad range of tones.

There's no way to know what you are showing since you didn't really. Matte in a kitchen seems risky as it is very difficult to clean matte anything. Grey--just no.

If cabinets are custom you should be able to do any color or wood .I love gray but would never do gray cabinets . If you want helpp here we need actual pics and info.

Take some of your flooring with you to shop for cabinets. Then bring home a cabinet door sample or three. This will take several visits.

Remember to change your lighting to whatever you plan to use before you make your choices. A custom cabinet maker will make finished samples for you to approve.

If they are custom cabinets they can be made in any wood tone you want. Select your flooring and give a sample to the cabinet maker to matching cabinets if that is what you are going for.

The pic you are showing is so reflective it is hard to tell what the finish actually looks like, and you show no sample of your flooring, nor the light in your space, so we really don't have enough info to begin to answer your question.

Cleanable matte surfaces have come a long way recently. But to be sure, get a sample piece of matte cabinetry, crud it up with lots of different food matter, and see how well it cleans.