The living room furniture is very specific, meaning I don’t know how you introduce a modern tulip table in that space.

I like the two tables in your op examples more than what you have in mind today.

I’d like a four leg oval that can expand bigger. We have a vintage Barbara Barry in our small dining room and the rounded ends are easily navigated.

Trying to clean today, but will look for pictured of what I’m talkign about

https://www.chairish.com/product/35313540/baker-furniture-style-regency-banded-cherry-wood-pedestal-extension-dining-table-newly-refinished

https://www.chairish.com/product/7158206/mid-20th-century-french-neoclassic-style-oval-table-with-leaf

https://www.chairish.com/product/35751677/highland-house-hudson-dining-table

https://www.chairish.com/product/36034966/kindel-furniture-federal-banded-mahogany-extension-dining-table-newly-refinished

With all the leaves in it

I agree that the tulip isn't the best choice even though it's a great table.
I think Spanish's traditional but simple choices will look good. I also suggest changing the coffee table. Something round or oval and upholstered with less prominent legs would be a nice change.

Thanks for weighing in, everyone!

Correct @chispa—Florida winter home, where we entertain quite a bit. There is a family room behind the arched wall, you can see the kitchen area through the right door. If you somehow missed my kitchen layout saga, never fear, a new post is coming. I can't use the FR for dining since it would be 2 tables back to back—dining and kitchen. I could possibly use the den, but that would put DH in the DR fishbowl, and I love him too much for that.

The dining room is all about entertaining. I host between 8-12 guests for lunch twice a month, plus one or 2 two dinner gatherings. Apps and dessert are on the lanai, dinner inside. But if it's a lovely night/sunset, the full meal will be outside where I can seat 12. If it's a cold or rainy night, I pull the patio table into the FR, add pretty linens, and seat the men there, women at the DR table.

@1929Spanish-GW, I agree the clean lines of the Regency/Federal table with legs would be sleek and stunning, the problem is I can't fit 8 if the table has legs. Hosting 8 is the goal since I can currently only fit 7 at my 60" table, so I have to host either 7 or 10, seat 6 at the round table and 4 at a card (not really but kind of) table. I hate that. A 72" table will not be centered.

The round Baker table is gorgeous. Do you think 45" would look too skimpy in that space? I'd have to keep the table closed so it's centered under the tray ceiling/chandy. It's also $5,100 more than the Drexel, but maybe it's worth it?

Am I missing another seating solution?

@deegw, I love it! What a difference that made! It really softens and updates the look. Maybe a lighter or gold and glass side table?

The opposite wall needs a console. Ceilings are 12'. Here's a pic from me pushing furniture around. The wall is 98", that console is 43h x 62w.

Here are a few consoles, 3 of the 4 are Modern History so there are finish options. And one is $24k lol. Can you guess which one?

I'd love to infuse a bit of contemporary in here and the DR, and use a tulip table in the kitchen if the math of the layout ever makes sense.

Such pretty rooms. I like the tulip table in the DR. You only need three modern or contemporary items in a room for balance. You already have the art and light fixture in the DR. I like your art choices so far.

The coffee table appears to be large for the space. Round would have been better for flow. Consider replacing or forgo a center table and do two ceramic garden stools, add a large piece of contemporary art over the sofa (find art first). All garden stools do not have a flat top, but this one does, and the soft color appears to be a nice addition.

LINK

A round capiz shell table, but this one is only 15" H. I like the shape for interest, material for texture.

I cannot find your ktichen thread. Can you link it here?

"I can't use the FR for dining since it would be 2 tables back to back—dining and kitchen."

You wouldn't be the first person to do one bigger table in the FR and skip the breakfast table.

One house my parents owned, they put the dining room in what was supposed to be the family room. In the tiny dining room they put a cozy sitting area with small TV. They still had a formal living room and then moved the family room activities with larger TV to the finished walk-out basement.

I attended a party in a very old remodeled colonial when we lived in New England. They had taken out walls and completely redesigned the floor plan for "modern" family entertaining. Only one dining table, in the large open FR/kitchen space, and it could seat something like 24 people!

Thanks so much for weighing in and making me think about this in a different way.

@BeverlyFLADeziner that looks like a good size, thanks for posting.

@chispa, 24 seated!? That's impressive! I did think about moving the kitchen to the dining room, space, but then the kitchen is the new fishbowl and DH office would be adjacent to the fishbowl. So I thought about making a bedroom the den, and the den the bedroom. Give a mouse a cookie...

@Allison0704, thanks for stretching me a bit and leading me to a more contemporary look. 3 pieces will be the goal. And thank you too for the interest in the kitchen. I've struggled with the layout and don't want the clearances to be unsafe. Here is the link

I couldn't find the capiz, here is arhaus for a visual, but it's also too low at 15"H. Imagine there are no, or other pillows on the sofa. I can't erase them.

LINK to the Capiz table I found, also too low as I stated above. But I do love the design.

My sister has this round table, below, in the LR of her main house. We actually found it in Florida, but it was too big to use at her house here. It is on wheels, but does not move unless you want it to (on a rug). Weighs 81lbs and is 17.5" H x 42" diameter.

It is carried at various websites, I did not shop for best price. LINK

Here is a photo I took at the store on purchase day. Better idea of wood finish. It is a very pretty table.

I like the garden stools with your chairs. You don't necessarily have to match them, depends on your style.

I would not do a mirror over the sofa, as it does not reflect anything of interest, and I think either of the art pieces are more interesting.

THESE mirrors come in sets of two, but I only used three here. Not to scale, and a crude attempt at copy/pasting. I would hang touching each other.

Thanks for the kitchen link. I will look this morning.

ETA: This was a mirror in DD's bath, last house. Larger than the set I saw this morning. When the house was listed, she sold it to a couple that was going to use it as a bar backsplash - perfect measurements.

Such a pretty, airy, happy space!

I think tulip tables go anywhere. They do make extendable ones, eg here: https://www.bauhaus2yourhouse.com/products/extendable-tulip-dining-table?srsltid=AfmBOormhhHOr-6YklmwyX9OeF5rlFNVV5gzCw5SteVFJ5Yd8JoD-zcZ

I love the coffee table in your last picture. I agree mirrors only belong when they reflect a view or vignette. I might spend more time looking for art you like; to me it is an important element of this room and will sort of make it or break it. Nothing too generic.

I just want to say I love your mock-up of the tulip table - the base color connects to your wood accents. Your artwork is beautiful. Such a pretty, soothing space.

Awww, thanks friends! And leave it to mtn find an extendable table. Allison, the champagne bronze on that table could be a perfect neutral.

The Tulip table and the Allison's solid table are the front runners.

What style dining chairs and end table &console table do tyou think for the LR?

Progress!

What style dining chairs and end table &console table do tyou think for the LR?

Do you mean LR or DR?

It's hard to answer because I am not sure what you are keeping (maybe I missed it) and because your space could go in so many directions. What do you like?

@mtnrdredux_gw thanks for the question. Sorry to have gone MIA. My DMIL passed away, and it’s been a tough few weeks. The decorating project is a welcome distraction, so thanks again for everyone's help, I really appreciate it.

I don’t really have a defined style, but I do have a style icon—a former colleague whose house in Milan I always loved. It was very contemporary—long, clean lines, understated, a mix of materials, and then a few very old pieces. I couldn’t begin to guess the century of some of them. I remember one chest of drawers with paint literally peeling off, and sculpture and art that had real age to them.

Nothing was matchy-matchy or crowded. Obviously my house and climate are completely different, but I’m really drawn to that mix of clean and collected or inherited pieces that feel almost casually dropped in. I guess this is my very Florida attempt at finding some version of that.

I like this RH tulip table and the clean geometric chairs—they feel like a foil to the squarer bergere, and give a little nod to its French roots. I decided for throw caution to the wind regarding the centering of it. I'll keep it centered and push it out a few inches when I entertain. Centered I think I have about 30" from the wall. That will be my seat lol.

To finish the Dining Room, I need a buffet. I'll get 6 chairs and then decide on the arm chairs. The arms might look good flanking the art wall.

For the Living Room, I’m leaning toward @Allison0704’s round cocktail table, still looking for suggestions for the brown console (that you see between the doors, it's directly across from the sofa), the end table, and whether to center the sofa on the wall rather than the chandelier...

So sorry about your DMIL, M. My condolences.

I actually think that Florida is not a bad spot to replicate Milan, and your home's architecture is a good start too. Do you have any photos of your colleague's home? Not to share here, but for you to refer to? I have sometimes taken a favorite room and very intentionally sourced different but similar pieces to get the vibe I wanted.

I love the tulip table, and I love mixing it with things that are traditional; i did that in our pied a terre with a white plastic (they may have had a fancier word for it) tulip table and bamboo chairs.

I think what you need to find next is that "mix of clean and collected or inherited pieces." First, what do you have that is old or exotic and loved? Art, furniture, a rug, tapestry, almost anything? If you don't have anything that jumps out at you, you need a buying trip. Maybe to Milan? Or if not to your nearest antique district. YOu need something special and fabulous to jump start the rooms. I think. Don't give up on your Milanese vision!

A buying trip to Milan. Mtn, you have the best ideas! I’m thinking a GTG. Surely there’s some GW anniversary or milestone we could celebrate as an excuse?

But seriously, I appreciate the direction and jumping off point from the photos. You've given me good advice, I'll run with it and report back!