Any suggestions of how I can obtain the right color I'm going for so that I don't fail again?
Choose a color of white from the middle of the yellow hue family. Because if your cabinets are creamy white looking, then I'm assuming you don't want a white that looks too stark in the family room.
Here's a list of whites in order by hue family. It's helpful if you collect all or some of the chips and put them in order exactly how they're listed. By comparing the chips - in order - you be able to see how they're different. Choose your top two or three favorites and test. For example, I'd pull White Dove, Cloud White, and Simply White. Good luck.
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