I think black windows are too trendy, but so is the modern farmhouse look. If you are looking for classic and timeless, I would shy away from the black/white modern farmhouse look....these will be time stamped for sure IMO. Also consider your surroundings. We live in a quiet area on the outskirts of suburbia, surrounded by trees, lakes, ponds and lots of wetland. The new homes in my neighborhood with earthier exterior color schemes (warm grays, greens, beiges, brown, etc) fit in very well with the surroundings, and the overall vibe is relaxed, ”homey” and welcoming. These will age well in place. We also have several white/black and/or all white modern farmhouse looking homes in the neighborhood, and they stick out like a sore thumb. The “look” of the home itself appeals to me (although I admit I am getting tired of seeing so many), but it feels forced and inappropriate for the lot and surroundings, and the overall feel of the neighborhood. I can’t explain it well, but they just feel harsh to me.
I have always loved the cheery and clean look of white windows; I find them very warm and welcoming. On the wrong house, black windows can be dark and dreary....almost haunted house vibe (particularly with darker earth tone exterior colors).
I don’t like all white, though (again, trendy).....I would do the repose gray siding (your second color scheme), or a slightly darker gray like mindful or dorian gray to offer more contrast. I think a grayish sage green or a blue would work well, too.
If you do go with black windows, I would heavily consider black on the outside and white on the inside.
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