Here's another view from the kitchen.

Do you have images of the product? Images of the two different finishes?

I can't copy his photos but here's a link the the table: http://www.clarksoncustomfurniture.com/#!pedestal/c1syq

First wood stain is Provincial and second is Dark Walnut by Minwax

The guy uses pine as the wood for the table and buffet.

You have plenty of red in the flooring. I prefer the depth of the Provincial - but the tones don't seem to work with your flooring. I think the Dark Walnut is a bit too dark.

I would break down and purchase a small tin (some times only a few ounces) of both of these, stain a piece of pine and then view them. You have all of the colour cards littered across the room, but I worry that you are not getting the full understanding of the colour. Only a test strips with the stain added will give a true idea of what your furniture will look like before you choose the colour.

Again, the colours on my screen are not to be believed. Personally, I like Red Chestnut or
Gunstock because the colour tones are a better fit for the flooring/colours in the space.

I thought about doing that. Thanks! I can match the flooring exactly but I feel it would all blend in too much.

I think I would go much lighter with the furniture. You don't want everything in the room to be dark like the floors. Imo :)

That's not a bad idea. I was going to keep warm woods and maybe use a light rug and tan colored cloth chairs to lighten the space. The room will be painted as well so it won't remain that darker gray.

I have tried a few different stains. From left to right, provincial, Early American, gunstock, red chestnut, and English chestnut. Love the English chestnut but it matches the floor too well. Still leaning towards the provincial.