Some things just never go away!!

11 years ago

I got the feeling like I was reading my obituary, lol.
I have to say I have been having a few laughs. One by nwduck, lol... the people who *got* her lol. I don't even get me!!

I have a lot to say ..........if no one stops in here, I will be knocking on your door *waving*

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rredpenn

11 years ago

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There is an "Other" category just for that.... :) I hope Prince gets "reinstated" soon. I liked the sense of humor he brought to the site. He put the whole dilemma thing in perspective, for me. A lot of the posts on "dilemmas" (MINE INCLUDED) are first-world problems to have.

Really--What color to paint my home office? Where to put my buffet? How to add a pool to this yard? What siding to put on my garottage? Oh, and that last one is my own dilemma, btw.

MOST PEOPLE in the world are not so fortunate to have these "problems". They are struggling to PAY for a place to sleep. They are not as fortunate as we are. Prince found a way to gently poke fun at us. Sad that it was taken the wrong way, probably by some self-important PRO, yeah?

ok off my soapbox. Sorry, Margo... :)

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11 years ago
NO Problem venting here;) I am always up for a bit of fun!
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hayleydaniels
11 years ago
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rredpenn, I marvel at how seriously some of the dilemmas about furniture placement and the like are taken. And how it's almost a given that we can afford to replace everything we have to achieve the 'right look.'

I live a half a mile from Marysville Pilchuck High School where 5 kids were lured to their death 8 days ago. The three girls are dead, and one boy is in critical conditon. Another was only shot through the jaw, and will recover. It makes you realize how tentative life is, and how unimportant things are.
Depo
11 years ago
Boy, haleydaniels, you've got that right!

About all the pros who tell people to replace stuff, that drives me nuts. Someone will say they are on a budget or that the furniture is new, and the first thing suggested is to buy something new geesh!
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
Hayley that is so very sad. Horrible. Life needs perspective for our values.

There are not many that can replace an entire room!
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
Depo, I see the same thing. Apparently the posters are not really listening.
Depo
11 years ago
I guess that's been my point all morning, but I'm not good at articulating. Isn't the sign of a true pro one who listens? There are maybe 5 on here that do that, you being one of them LB.
User
11 years ago
''I want a bright white with Mondrianesque primary color accents inspired kitchen. But I just bought these Jack Daniels whisky barrel chairs for my breakfast area and we have orangey oak cabinets. What should I do?''

Sorry, but tbere IS no other right answer sometimes than to get rid of the elephant in the room. Or change the mission statement entirely. You can't get to NYC from Chicago by going west. Unless you completely circumnavigate the globe and spend way too much time and effort doing that.
Ann
11 years ago
Good point Sophie. Sometimes you just can't get to the absolute desired look with items you already own, but I've remained quite stubborn about keeping most of my things and my house had improved a bunch by rearranging, painting and other cheaper methods suggested by Houzzers. The Houzz gang that has helped me through so many dilemmas has adjusted to my desire to keep things and my desire to stay within budget. But, yes there are always those that say "start over".
Vintage...VJ Jazzy Jazz
11 years ago
But I don't have an elephant .
In my room just things I love :0)
rredpenn
11 years ago
LB..can I ask you a favor? I've been following and trying to encourage a cute little gal in Austin TX who has painted her house a deep teal in honor of her Jamaican roots. She's getting some flack from naysayers, and I am afraid she will be turned off. Maybe you could use your "Pro" label and some encouraging words for her? I think if her thread stays active with some positive words, esp. from more than just a few of us, she'd be encouraged! Thanks! Her thread is here... https://www.houzz.com/discussions/painted-brick-update-dsvw-vd~1245962
zazfuzzroc
11 years ago
Rred, I agree. Some people are really nasty. If you can't speak in a nice way, then super glue your lips. ;)
rredpenn
11 years ago
Oh and anyone else too should go see this cute little place and give her a vote of encouragement. She is positive, and seems to let the flack roll off, but man, what is it with the negativity? All she wants is trim color suggestions. Her ideabook too has amazing ideas for her front yard.
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
Awwwww........ thanks Depo!!!!
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
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The design dilemma above might be solved by giving the client choices of what is mentioned, but another choice is to go with an eclectic design using all the things desired. The designer's creativity can add to the mix to bring it all comfortably together for that clients' tastes.
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
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Sure rredd. Thanks for your value of me :) We are in the 2nd day of installation of artificial turf. Will get there in between. Thanks. I hate to see negativity. Different choices, but not bashing.
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11 years ago
Some how I feel like I have come to an intervention lol.... I mean some crazy smart a$$ stuff can come out of my mouth;))))))))))
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
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Margo what's on your mind ?.............. hmmmm. I don't want to instigate here, just curious. Soft steps on the rocks might be good.
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11 years ago
LOL LB ....What does soft steps on the rocks might be good mean??? Are we speaking in pro code?;))
zazfuzzroc
11 years ago
Margo, you didn't think the crazy glue comment was directed to you?????? NOT!!! Definitely Not. The mean people on the thread rred was talking about. I like smart a$$ comments. LOL ;)
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
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Margo, no, just in my perspective.LOL Got it?
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11 years ago
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Hey- I went to that thread rred, and I agree a lot of negative comments were said BUT if the poster would have clarified her style, neighborhood, etc. in the post intro I think that could have curbed the comments. I always thought Houzz should have a prompt to help new posters create their dilemma.
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
Strength in who we are, can make 'all' things okay! Never mind. It's all okay for all. People are different in a lot of ways and alike in a lot of ways.
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11 years ago
Zaz- no, I did not think that at all!!
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
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Good point Margo... that might be too easy for us though LOL. Then we might not need to read all the comments. Best to read the thread, too many of OP's afterthoughts occur. Can not edit the dilemma once posted :((
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11 years ago
Well, maybe some basic help. I mean when a poster says *help* me with my livingroom. Everyone goes on and on for days with wall colors, then the OP comes back and says "OH, forgot to tell you we are renting and the landlord will not let us paint." That is when I want to give the OP a nasty nasty tongue lashing ;))
beachlily
11 years ago
I'm blonde and have no idea what's going on
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
I understand Margo,,, but guess what.... that is life and people. LOL I just roll with it. Sometimes with a bouncy roll. LOL
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11 years ago
Wel, then you will fit right in beachlily;))
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
Margo, I think we just visited the twilight zone..........................
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11 years ago
LB- let's not get to *bouncy* on us;)
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
Not my style, Margo, but it does happen!
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11 years ago
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
LOL LOL LOL Margo, yes that's the tune in my head!
Nancy Travisinteriors
11 years ago
Margo, welcome back. Always fun to see your humor.
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rredpenn
11 years ago
Thanks guys! I see you've been over to her thread...very happy. LB, you are the best! :)
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11 years ago
Thanks Nancy!
Ann
11 years ago
I just checked out the blue house thread. I'm terrified of color so I better just stay away from that one:)
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11 years ago
LOL Ann- I put glue on my lips ;))
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
Ann, you are funny! You are honest :)
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
Thanks rred, Blushing...
User
11 years ago
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I can't get to that thread that rred posted above. Can someone re-post here?

And I too am blonde, well strawberry blonde and I got lost in all the translations too. But that's okay cause I adore you all. :))
User
11 years ago
Oh...and I think some people are just offended by Prince's humor. Sad that they take life so seriously.
User
11 years ago
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Hayley, OMG that is just horrible. My mind can't even comprehend.
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
Ali, here's the link .... https://www.houzz.com/discussions/painted-brick-update-dsvw-vd~1245962
User
11 years ago
LB, thank you. That is some colorful house, but if she loves it who are we to criticize. IMO :)
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LB Interiors
11 years ago
You're Welcome Ali.
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11 years ago
:)
rredpenn
11 years ago
haha Ann... I'm terrified of color too! I live vicariously through other people's colorful houses! :) and thanks LB again for helping her out, and anyone else who popped in! I was just drawn to it, esp after reading her reaction to the negative ppl.
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11 years ago
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I love color too, but the last three houses I have lived in have been grey w/wht. trim, black shutters and I end up painting the front door red. I guess I'm predictably boring and like rred live through other peoples colorful houses. LOL

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