I need help picking out lighting for my dining room. I was thinking of a large drum shade pendant. My table is 80x40. What size shade should I get? Color of shade? I posted a pic of my unfinished dining room and a dining room that I really like from a model home. I really like that drum shade, can I get away with something similar? Should I look for something with bling hanging from the light or not? Thanks for any advice!