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Anyone Need a Shot ?

19 years ago

If you do, I can give you one.

Katrina called on friday saying she was throwing up her

toe nails and needed help. Neil and I rushed over and came

to the conclusion she had the dreaded virus that was making

it's rounds. You know, the one that has you sitting on the

john holding a trash can so you can multi-task.

I called the doctor on call and Neil asked him to call in

an injectable medicine.

We picked it up at the pharmacy and Neil gave her an

injection. It was soon apparent that I would have to spend

the night to take care of her so I asked Neil if he could

show me ( miss scared to death of sticking a needle in

someone)how to give a shot. He handed me the vial, alcohol

prep pad, the syringe and told me how to do that part. I

did it perfectly the first time.

Folks when we went to do the deed, I chickened out. I

couldn't do it.

I took Neil home at midnight, grabbed my overnight bag and

went back to Katrina's and made myself comfortable on her

sofa. There was no sleep to be had for those 2 nights, she

kept me busy. At one time she was deathly sick and was

begging for a shot to stop the nausea. I filled the syringe

walked into her bedroom and kept going over in my head

everything Neil had told me. I said, Katrina, I can't do

this. "Mom, please try, I am so sick", please, just do it."

There is something that makes a mother do ANYTHING to

take care of her children because I gave her the first shot

i'd ever given in my life. After that I wondered why I had

been such a wuss about it. So, now that I know how to give

shots, anybody want one ? I've given probably 5 by now so

surely you can trust me.:0)

The dreaded virus hit me on sunday night, i'm weak as a

little kitten and have had to cancel appointments for a few

days. My sweet sis, Gail, brought over food for Neil and

some jello and potato soup for me.

Lord luv a duck, I may have to take up nursing.

Move over Gillian, i'm on a roll.

Comments (16)

  • 19 years ago

    For a heady moment there, Jan, I thought you had the tequila bottle out:)

    Bravo!! I've never given a shot either and I hope I never had to. Love does conquer all, doesn't it?

  • 19 years ago

    After giving cat shots i imagine i could handle a human.

  • 19 years ago

    I've pretty much come to the conclusion that the ability to give care is simply if you decide to do it, you can. It has little to do with emotional strength, moral fiber, or any other factor. It is an act of volition.

    Way to go, Jan.

  • 19 years ago

    I think you got that one with pin-point accuracy, dorph. It's an act of volition. If you go visit any particular nursing class anywhere, and look at the psychological makeup of the students it is going to run across the board, from total wimps to amazons. You learn very quickly to master the deed and you just do what has to be done and then think about it after the fact.

    Pam, if you can give a cat a shot, humans are easy. I still wince giving my mother's dog shots every day and I have given humans........literally........thousands of them.

    I'm proud of you Jan. That is a rite of passage. Hope you and your daughter are feeling better and that Neil doesn't get it.

  • 19 years ago

    brand new definition for multi task. LOL Sorry you were both so darn sick but you came out of it knowing how to give an injection and probaby 5 pounds lighter. ( Maybe a shopping trip is in order.)

  • 19 years ago

    Good for you Jan. I've never given a shot either, not either a pet or a human. But I guess when you've got to you can do just about anything.

    Hope you're feeling better. This year's version of the crud is pretty nasty.

  • 19 years ago

    I had to have a shot every day for 10 days after every dose of the chemo...The first time I went over to the nurse neighbor...the second time I was with my daughter...handed her the needle and said.."do it"...she thought for a while, chugged a glass of wine and shot me up. When I didn't scream and she didn't faint, it was easy.
    Then I decided it was easier to do it myself than to worry about finding someone else...
    And I know a lot of diabetics who give themselves or their children shots several times a day....
    Glad you jumped the hurdle Aggie.
    Linda C

  • 19 years ago

    Linda,LOL. Glad is wasn't 2 glasses of wine.

  • 19 years ago

    M, it shoulda been two glasses... one for Linda too!

    Yea Jan! I just know I could do it, but I am so glad I haven't had to. Children just bring out the best don't they? You get better now, you hear me? Or send Jaz to make your drink pink stuff, your choice which it is she brings.

  • 19 years ago

    Jan, the only pink drink I would dare serve you right now would be a couple shots of Pepto Bismol, shaken over ice and served in a martini glass with a couple plain oyster crackers floating on the top.

    A mother's love know's no limits. I'm proud of you. I'm petrified beyond reason by needles. When Groover was dying, I considered it a major achievement that I was able to hold her while Steve gave her sub-cu fluids... my back up plan when he traveled was to call my neighbor who had a diabetic cat and have her help me... but I never dreamed of doing it myself. I'm impressed that you willed yourself to do this.

  • 19 years ago

    Ditto what Pam said. I just need a tent of skin at the base of your neck where the needle goes in...and I'm good. lol

    I agree with all of you who say it's a matter of just. doing. it. Because I honestly cannot deal with the concept of needles being poked into that soft, sweet skin. I have to send my brain away for the few minutes it takes to get the insulin in the syringe, find that #$!! tent of skin and plunge. It's a kneejerk reflex that compels me to say "thank you for letting me do that to you" as I rub the spot to help get the insulin circulating. And then, as I stand up and walk away from the kitty, I give a massive involuntary shudder for the necessary atrocity that I have just committed.

    Good grief: I should never have read or responded to this thread today. I have to give an insulin injection in 2 1/2 hours!!! <:o0>Karen

  • 19 years ago

    I often wonder how it is that pets sometimes don't seem to feel the pain. Never with our dogs,or cats have they ever even blinked when given an injection. It's as if it never happened. I know animals,especially dogs,can easily hide pain but you'd think they would at least move something when that needle goes in.

  • 19 years ago

    If my cat Puddy were still alive, Marda, he would probably
    be saying a few choice words about shots. He knew words that
    would embarrass a sailor. My job was to either throw a
    towel around him and hold him or give the shot, i'm
    thinking now that a shot would have been the better choice.

    Linda, I can't begin to imagine what you had to go through
    with chemo and having a shot every day. Until the weekend
    when I was forced to heed my daughter's pleas for help, I
    was the one that turned my head away when my aunt gave
    herself insulin shots in the stomach. Now it doesn't seem
    so bad to me. I could have probably given myself a shot but
    just the thought of sticking a needle in someone else was
    just too much.

    Michelle, you of all people are the one I would have considered
    fearless. For everyone else, you to, Michelle, if I could
    do it anyone could.

    Suzy, I am feeling better and hoping against hope that Neil
    doesn't get it. Poor dear had his birthday ruined because I
    was taking care of Katrina and then I got sick. He took
    care of me, offering to give me shots but I declined, I
    sort of toughed it out. I really wanted to save the
    injections for him if he got sick. He doesn't need to be
    violently ill with the hemmorrhaging going on with his eyes.

    Andie, you are right about the crud this year being bad.
    I've never seen anything like it and some people are having
    to be hospitalized. Katrina should have gone to the
    hospital, she needed IV fluids. One more day and there
    would have been an ambulance crew knocking on her door.

    I hope none of you get this but if you do!
    Have Syringes Will Travel!!!!!! :0)

  • 19 years ago

    Oh you have all my sympathies - 6 of us in my family have had it so far. I only got it very mildly but DSS, DSD, SIL and the baby all got it. (Imagine, three of them yacking in the same house - then her mother, who came to help, got it too).

    Don't forget you can take ibuprofen or tylenol or similar for the muscle aches in your chest (from all that heaving). (If you can keep it down)

  • 19 years ago

    Sara, I am so sorry, I cannot even begin to imagine that
    many people in one house having the crud at the same time.
    All I can say is you must have more bathrooms than I and
    more trash cans to.

    I have a bottle of tylenol on my bedside table and believe
    me I took it. One thing I wasn't prepared for was the pain
    across my back and stomach. I felt like someone had beaten
    me with a ball bat.

    Now for the obvious question. Do any of you need shots? ;0)

  • 19 years ago

    Janis, I;m sorry to hear you and your daughter have been so ill. There are schools around my town closing because of the flu.

    Many years ago I was taught to give a shot so I could give my ex-husband allergy shots. That first time was really hard but then I got the feel of it and did it for a couple of years.

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