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Journal 5 September 2008

18 years ago

How 'bout them 'Dores?! Yea, we won last night. Which makes taking 30 minutes to get out of the garage worth it. I was stuck in game traffic for 50 minutes. I live 3 miles from work, and it took me almost an hour to get home?! But we won. Fridays are the greatest day of the week, when you're working. I actually find my favorite time of the week, bedtime Friday night, when I get to turn off the alarm. Maks me smile. This one is a particularly good Friday. Last night, as I sat on the couch, I realized that I hadn't stopped moving since last Friday night. Literally every moment awake was accompanied by movement. It was so nice to just sit. I'm really really really looking forward to turning off the alarm tonight.

Ed and I are on a diet. I need to lose a good 40 pounds or so. We're kick starting it with 90 days of low carbs, high protein and low calories, six meals a day, spaced apart. All supplemented with loads of water, vitamins and no sugar or alcohol. None. UGH! It's actually a diet made up by Vandy. I trust them. He's cheated every day. I've cheated none. But will. Today is a lunch out I planned weeks ago and tomorrow is the family reunion with Girlie's (his name) BBQ. It's too awesome. I'll just pick one protein item, water, and some fruit (hopefully berries). Maybe a snippet of potato salad. Should be ok, right?

I took the reunion into account when I made the house plan. However, this part of the plan just got shot down completely. He has to work the TSU homecoming game on Saturday night, and Titans game on Sunday moring. And I want to go swimming on Sunday (it's the last day of the season), which means I'll be too dead to work later. It's not only time consuming, it drains me of energy.

Aug 30-Sept 7

All week long---tiling (only 10 or tiles left) and grout for the floor/tub. Drywall (only about 150 sq ft)

Saturday evening---plumbing for bathtub drain connect. Paint the walls.

Sunday---tile cleaning/sealing

Maybe we can double up somewhere.

LF is much happier in school and is looking forward to guitar lessons. He has mixed feelings about two straight days of swimming, since they're the last of the year. Still his favorite mom activity. Being over with, not so much.

Comments (7)

  • 18 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Yesterday was bad but today, well, let's just say I had to take drugs.

    Yesterday Katrina had to start getting her legs wrapped
    again. Not since the UNA boots have we had to deal with this.
    I was up early because sis was having a procedure, bladder sling at the surgery center. Sassi had to be taken to the groomer and then Katrina had to go to the wound clinic.
    I had someone coming to cut the back out of a new cabinet I bought for a big TV a friend had given Neil.

    I went to the surgery center to see sis before surgery.
    I had had a bad feeling about this and had urged sis not to do it. Never had this feeling before.

    I dropped Sassi off with the groomer and then hurried home to fix breakfast for Neil and Katrina.
    I then get a call saying that the doctor had perforated the bladder and sis was being taken across to the hospital because there might emergency surgery to repair bladder.
    Neil and I went to check on sis.

    Those of you that have been here so long know a lot of
    Katrina's health history and it isn't easy nor is any of it good. We went through the wound care, leg wrapping thing for the better part of a year so this isn't our first Rodeo
    if you know what I mean.

    We tried to explain some of the things that didn't work
    before and it didn't fly with them. We got this " we've been doing this for years and we know what we're doing."
    Well, Katrina has had health problems since she was born so
    she knows her body better than anyone with the exception of myself. The doctor asked what surgeries she had had and when she started telling him, she lost him after the first 5.
    We then had to explain each one and go into depth why the surgery was done.
    Lord luv a duck, I was exhausted when it was over and was very glad Neil wasn't there. The appointment took 3 hours
    and by the time I got home and got supper taken care of, picking up Sassi, I just wanted to go to bed but still had to beat the closing time at Kmart to buy those long bath runners so I could make a path from Katrina's bedroom to her bathroom
    so she could navigate without falling. Her legs are weeping fluids and it runs off by the buckets onto the floors,
    which are hardwood. Since she has to walk with crutches she slips on wet floors.

    Sis, spent hours waiting to be taken down for tests to find out if she had to have surgery and ended up having to wait
    til today because the doctor had left the hospital for the day.

    This morning I got up early for the utility company to relocate my computer connection.
    Sis was taken down to have tests, the gutter people came
    and repaired the gutter.

    Katrina couldn't wear any of her shoes, I made a hasty trip to shoe stores and brought home a few possibilities for her.

    While I was out I got a frantic call from my other sis
    and she said our sis was taken straight from the tests to the operating room. The surgery would be 3 hours.
    I'm afraid at that point I lost it. By the time I got home, I was in tears, had called my grandson to come to stay with Neil.

    I took Katrina back to the wound clinic to get her legs wrapped again, and this time the nurse actually listened
    and tried a new way to wrap. I had taken a calming medication by then and had stopped crying.

    When I got home, I had found out that sis had made it through the surgery. The sling had to be removed, the bladder and tubes repaired and the surgeon is keeping her til next tuesday and will be sending her home with a cath.

    My grandson had put the big TV in the new cabinet in the living room and had connected my computer back up. (Every cloud has a silver lining)

    Katrina treated us to supper and in a few minutes, I'll go to the hospital and check on sis.

    I'm just plain worn out!

  • 18 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    ((((((((((Jan))))))))))

  • 18 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    (((((((((((Jan))))))))))))

    love
    Sheila
    xxoo

  • 18 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    More (((((((((hugs)))))))), Jan--for you and all of your family.

  • 18 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Oh, Jan, my heart hurts for you and your family...you are such a strong lady but are really having a hard row to hoe..will keep you in my thoughts. Bless your grandson's heart! josh

  • 18 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Jan, I'm exhausted just reading all the trauma in your life. Hope everything improves.

  • 18 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    ((((((((((Jan))))))))))
    What can I say?! You are in my thoughts and I say a special prayer for you when I light my morning candle.
    It comes in bunches, doesn't it?

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