This weather is sucky but at least we aren't having an ice storm like, when was it? 86 maybe, when it iced in April?

I assume you are talking about divorce I hope everything goes well for you. Good luck!

I really hate to offend you, but can we please feel free to log onto the GardenWeb without the burden of having to read about your marrital problems?

Divorce and/or infidelity is a bee-otch, and having been through it at the age of 13 - like me - really sucks, but the more you complain in a public forum such as this, the more I understand why you just might be having problems in the first place. Afer all, making a "vow" before God to "love, honor and obey" an already twice-married-partner is, well....questionable at best, as you alluded to in a previous post.

And to think, for every person like you and your "husband" there are hundreds of thousands more that would kill to have an opportunity at "wedded bliss" and all the benefits that accompany such an arrangement. Yet they are denied on grounds of sexual orientation.

If you don't already understand, this isn't the proper medium for you to be airing your dirty laundry. Go tell it to the pope already, and leave us with our "dirty" little gardening questions & answers...please.

Thank you...

I was simply asking for some support and positive vibes/energy/prayers.

However, Yes, you don't have to worry, I won't log on again and vent about it. I could not vent on the Surviving Infidelity forum that I was using b/c my dad and my attorney was petrified that my STBXH's girlfriend was monitoring it...

For the record, I totally support the union of gay couples - one of my best friends from high school is gay - he and his partner have been together for years.

I wondered if i should have posted this on the conversation part of AL anyway.

You didn't offend until you said.... "the more I understand why you just might be having problems in the first place." I made a mistake - a big one - in marrying him. To think, one of the things I fought with him on was b/c he was jealous of my "friends" online - on those gardening forums...

Don't worry, i won't bother you or anyone else here with it again.

Oh and Nelson - at this point, it is NOT about the infidelity - it is all about business. Dollars - mine that he spent - all of them.

I read these forums often and it seems to me there are several folks on here that are friends. It would seem a logical place for them to come for feedback and support on personal problems. I don't see the crime in her posting her thoughts and feelings here. Those that don't care to read them might find it less hurtful to her just to simply skip over her posts.

imadabbla I 2nd that!

WOW! OK, everyone take a deep breath, hold it, say "God loves you and so do I", five times. Let the breath out slowly. There, I feel better already.

Love Y'all

Terry