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Gram's Begonia

19 years ago

Since some of you have asked, this is the story of my Gram's Begonia, that I gave out at the swap. I put a printed page in a plastic bag and put it into the pots of Begonia's I gave out:

"I have no idea what the official name for this Begonia is, I simply call it "Grams Begonia". The piece you have received came from a Begonia I started from a piece given to me by my Grandmother, whom I call "Gram". As with many of my plants, they have a story.

Gram is 91 years old and lives on her own in Ft. Pierce. She has outlived three husbands and three of her own children, including my mother. She is still very active and her mind is as sharp as a tack. She still gardens, cans, bakes, goes strawberry picking, you name it. She sells her canned and baked goods at a local farm stand. People come from all around to buy her goods and place orders for her Pickles, Jams, Banana Bread, Mango Bread, Strawberry Bread, etc.

Several years ago, Gram lost everything in Hurricane Jean. Her mobile home was destroyed when the roof was peeled back and practically everything she owned was destroyed. All she was able to salvage were some pictures, some clothes and a few pieces of furniture. What was left of the beloved plants inside her screened porch, she moved under the shade of an awning of an old tin building that still stood on her property. Miraculously this tin building withstood the winds. Under this awning is where she now tinkers with her plants, including the mama plant of this begonia.

For the first month after the storm she sat in a lawn chair, in the shade of an oak tree, waiting for FEMA to come. Even though she has several children in the area who asked her to move in and live with them, she would not. She would spend the night at their homes but everyday she insisted they bring her back to sit under the tree and wait. Eventually, FEMA came and brought her a camper and parked it on her little piece of land. This is where she lived for the next year, not because she had to but because she insisted. I can still hear her very words, "This is my home and IÂm staying right here". Everyone thought she was crazy.

Eventually, FEMA brought a full size trailer, fully furnished for her to live in for the next 18 months. She began saving every penny she could, hoping to buy this trailer from FEMA after the 18 months were up. She baked and canned and sold her goods to the farm stand. She worried and fretted and saved every dime.

Her church had a spaghetti dinner after one Sunday morning service to help raise funds for her. The minister made an announcement at the end of the service reminding everyone to stay for the spaghetti dinner. In church that morning was a stranger no one knew. The stranger raised his hand and asked my grandmother to stand up so he could see who she was. He was from out of town and had just happened to see the church and decided to attend Sunday morning services. He also asked if he could join in on the spaghetti dinner. At the dinner he spent a great deal of time talking to my grandmother and getting to know her.

At the end of the dinner, the money was counted and in the collection was a check for $5,000 made out to my grandmother and a note from the stranger saying that he felt God had sent him to this church for this very special reason. My grandmother called it simply, "a miracle". In total the church had raised over $7,000 on her behalf. Her hopes were high.

After 18 months were up, Gram had not heard a word from FEMA. One day a envelope arrived in the mail. In the envelope was the title to the trailer with GramÂs name on it. Nothing else, no explanation. To this day, Gram thinks FEMA gave her the trailer. No one knows for sure. Another miracle? Perhaps.

I hope that every time you look at this Begonia, you will be reminded of miracles, the kindness of strangers, the tenacity of the human spirit and of the little old woman I call Gram. May it flourish and prosper as my grandmother still does today."

I almost put a kleenex in the plastic bag as well! My Gram is an amazing lady.

Cherie

Comments (24)

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Oh WOW! God bless her Cherie! That is a wonderful reminder of the human spirit and the goodness of strangers. Thanks so much for sharing the story. Now I want one of Gram's begonias to be reminded every day. She is a real role model! You are lucky to have her.

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    I will start taking orders for the spring swap for Grams Begonia, the first one goes to Cindee.

    Cherie

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Cherie:

    That was a wonderful story, beautifully told. You have a natural storyteller ability. Did you grow up in Ft. Pierce? I can hear the love and pride in your "voice". What a proud, pioneer spirit your Gram has!

    If it is okay with you, I would be so honored if you would share some of Gram's begonia with me and I would keep the history going. Please let me know what you might like in trade.

    Julie in WPB

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Thank-you Julie,
    I will put you down for one as well. It is the fastest growing begonia I have ever seen.

    And yes, I did grow up in Ft. Pierce.

    Cherie

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    I feel lucky to already have one of this special begonia now, you should have added a kleenex ;-)

    Evelyn

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    It is wonderful to get up, turn on the computer and read about a miracle.
    Wonderful story
    God Bless you and your Gram

    Barb

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Isn't it beautiful.
    I feel so honored to have this plant already, now I just have to figure out a great space for it in my garden, so I can look at it very often.
    Cherie, you had it in partial shade? What does it like?
    Thank you for you help.
    Veronika

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Cherie ~ That was one fabulous story. It filled my heart with joy to hear about your wonderful, spunky Gram. I would love a start of this begonia too. Not sure if I can make it to the spring swap, but maybe we could work something out in trade by mail, spring isn't here yet. Thank you for sharing that story, it really touched my heart!

    FlowerLady

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    What a beautiful story. My grandma always had begonia's on her front porch. I really miss seeing them. :( If it's okay, I would love one too. What would you like for trade?
    Pamela

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Pam and Flowerlady, I will start one for you too! No need to worry about trades right now, I just want to know how many pots to start.

    Flower Lady, where do you live? I am in Jupiter.

    And Veronika, filtered sun, mostly shade is all I have ever had it in.

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    What a wonderful story, Cherie. Thank you for sharing it with us. My Gram raised me after my mother died. I know how special Gram's are! I think I've purchased some of your Gram's wild grape jelly. The day we were there there was homemade banana bread as well. If I recall the farm stand isn't too far from the county extenson office.

    I would love to have a piece of your Gram's begonia.

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Actually, if you mean the extension office on Picos Road west of Ft. Pierce, that is probably the same stand. The wild grape jelly probably came from Grapes off of George, the grape vine that my youngest brother named about 30 years ago. George is a Florida muscadine variety and is still going strong.

    If you ever go back make sure you try her apple butter, it is the best. Maybe I will bring a bunch of her jellies, jams and baked goods to the next swap.

    Cherie

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Oh, Cherie,

    What a beautiful story. Your writing skills are lovely also. You have inspired me to go out today and see what kind deeds I can pass on to someone in need. Maybe for the rest of the week if I can. I will put a ribbon in my car to remind me. Thanks again for sharing a little part of you with us. I feel like I know you a little now. You have gotten a lot of orders, but if you ever have an extra piece of gram's begonia, I would love one as well. No hurry. Maybe next year. Please think of something I can trade in return. Thanks.

    Anna

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    What a beautiful story, Cherie!

    You have been blessed with a wonderful Gram and we have been blessed in reading your story. Please let me know where your Gram sells her goods. I'm headed down south for the holidays and it would be wonderful to pick up a few things on the way down.

    I would be honored to have a piece of the begonia, just as I feel honored to have read your story. What a woman!

    Thank you,
    Wanda

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    What a wonderful story and I am so happy you still have your grandmother. I too am blessed with a begonia from my grandmother and lots of neat memories of her. Is your begonia one of the old fashioned wax with redish stems and very little pink blooms? Mine self sews everywhere and I have shared with many others over the years. It has moved with me for over 40 years from Louisiana to California and back and two homes in Florida.

    I would love of start of your grandmothers begonia to keep my grandmothers company.

    Thanks for such an inspiring story.

    Carol

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Cheri that is a beautiful story and you are so lucky to still have your Gram's. I miss mine!
    Thank you for sharing your story.

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Cherie, I was so hoping you would post the story after reading the comments from the swap. I needed a kleenex too, and am amazed at the spunk and vitality your 91 year old grams has. She is indeed a special lady and if I can get down that way I certainly want to try some of her apple butter and jams.

    I hope to be able to make the swaps next year and would love a start of the begonia if possible. I have several myself, though not fortunate enough to have one handed down.

    Thanks so much for the story.

    Ginny

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    lovely memories I can imagine her stubborn old body enjoying her precious property and plants! I will have to stop and get some goodies. I pass through Ft Pierce often
    and take my elderly dad to the VA primary care place in Ft Pierce. Actuall y was just there with him . Also got red wigglers from the Shrimp Spot for 3 kindergarten classes I will be teaching worms to!
    Please take a photo of her with her plants and this story to the Press Journal.It is a great Human Interest story.

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Thank you all, and I will get information on where the stand is located, all I know is that it is somewhere in the vicinity of Orange Ave. Ext and King's Highway in Ft. Pierce. I have not been there because she won't let me buy anything and gives me loads of stuff everytime I see her. She probably won't be at the stand, she just drops her stuff off there for them to sell. She used to have her own stand but that was 15-20 years ago when she was in her 70s.

    I will get my Gram's picture with her plants next time I am there (if she will let me, she hates having her picture taken:). Golden Pond, where is the Press Journal, is that in Vero?

    And for everyone who has requested a piece of Gram's Begonia, I will start potting them up for the Spring swap. I really should have enough to go around for 10 or 12 people and if she knows someone wants it she will give me more!

    Cherie

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Cherie, wonderful story. You are blessed to have this lady in your life making an impact on you and the people around her.
    I am also blessed by my 90 year old mother. She lives by herself often telling me about the family of long ago. She shares her plants that she grows from seeds with me. She gave me about 9 strawberry guavas that now produces fruits. A few months ago she gave me 2 pomegranate trees that are now about a foot and a half.
    Your Gram comes from a generation that I give honor.
    Thank you for sharing your story.
    Felix

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Yes, please let us know where the stand is, I would love to buy some of her jams as well. :o)

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    I love your Gram!!
    Felix is right about that generation. They saw, went trough, and survived it all. What's also great is knowing you have that strong woman's DNA in you and that will enable you to do anything.
    (((((HUGS)))))
    Kristi

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    19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Cherie, what a heart warming story, God works in mysterious way to let us all know that miracles do happen. Bless you and your Gram!!!
    I would love a piece of Gram's begonia if you can spare 1 more but if you don't have that's OK.
    Jan

  • 19 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    I'd like to know the location of the farm stand too. That's a beautiful story you wrote, thank you for sharing your Gram with us. I'd like to hope we'll be like her when we're in our 90's too :-)

    Suzanne

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