hi,
if you do a search you will find several threads on this topic.
I'll come back later when I have time, and link to some of these threads.

ellen

Here are some threads:
http://forums.gardenweb.com/forums/load/njgard/msg040934311488.html

http://forums.gardenweb.com/forums/load/njgard/msg0508452419490.html

http://forums.gardenweb.com/forums/load/njgard/msg0107370914285.html

ellen

Triple Oaks, Franklinville. They have nice native plants and are very helpful.

Rarefind in Jackson, Fairweather in Greenwich, Popes near Anchora, Atlantic Nursery in Cologne. Popes is the only one that's kid friendly.

Case Nurseries in Ringoes, Rare Find.