Hi,
No there isn't. There a few that discuss the subject, but they are not comprehensive. Probably because the topic is just much too vast. Imagine how much info you would have to put into a book like that! I suppose one could do one for common annuals and common perennials, but I don't know of one.
Most common flowers don't need another plant nearby to pollinate. They may need insect pollination between the blooms on the plant though. If they look like an insect landing pad,lol, chances are they need help from an insect for pollination.
Distances between plants for seed purity can vary. Plants that wind pollinated require the farthest distances like 2-5 miles apart! The heavily insect pollinated plants vary from 1/2 mile to a mile. For at home if your getting a decent separation of distance like over a 1/4 mile, you'll have lowered you cross pollination by a lot. You may still get some crossing, but chances are lowered considerably.
If you have specific flowers you were wondering about, most of the time someone here knows the answer to a specific flower. Only the more unusual questions seem to take awhile for a reply.
Remy

THanks remy!