Oh my....
When did she scold you and why? Did she ever punish you? and how?
What is the best gift she ever gave you? What did she teach you to do. What was the worst thing she cooked that you had to eat? What game is Grandma best at? What games does she play with you and can you beat her?
Linda C....also a grandma of a bunch!

Oh thanks alot, that is exactly what I was looking for!!

In what way does each child take after/resemble/learned from/act like Grandma? Have the OTHERS decide about each one.

You don't even need a survey. Just ask each of them to tell you a favorite story regarding their grandmother. You'll be surprised what they come up with on their own. Sometimes we try to force it with questions, but if you just let them talk.

Say...I remember....______________________ and just let them fill in the blank with a story.

Ask what they did at an overnite at grandma's, Fun with gramdma at lake, park, family reunion, birthday party etc.

Ask them what their favorite thing is about Grandma and why.....or what makes Grandma special to them?