I wonder if you are using the kind of yarn called for in the pattern directions. If not, that might make a difference.

Yep, it's the correct yarn which is why this is so maddening.

Is the pattern done in rows or by inches? If done in inches then go with the needle that gives you the closest 9 sc= 2" and then figure out guage from there. If done by rows then find the needle that gives you the closest 10 rows = 4" and figure out how many stitches for 2" and add the additional stitches to make it work. This assumes that there is NO major pattern work involved.

The pattern is done by inches and now I can get started. Thanks so much for the help.