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My Concrete Bench

18 years ago

I finished mosaicing my concrete bench that is in my memory garden for my sister. I lost her to breast cancer 4 years ago. Tomorrow (Friday, Oct. 19) is her birthday - "Happy Brithday, Denise!" She was only 38 when she left us and left behind a 6 year old son and husband.

The pink ribbon is for breast cancer, the blue/yellow flowers are from plates that my daughter gave me when in college. My sister gave me a large bowl to match them that is in the garden as a birdbath. There is a pink rose next to the bench that a wonderful friend gave me in memory of Denise. And my daughter's in-laws sent us a dishgarden and I replanted it this spring in a larger planter and it is flourishing in this garden.

My husband and I walk in Making Strides Against Breast Cancer every year in our hometown. October 27 will be our fifth year for our walk.

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Comments (24)

  • 18 years ago

    Perfect! Living memorials are so wonderful both for those who create them and for those being remembered. I am absolutley certain everyone who sees your tribute is touched in many, many ways.

    Pat

  • 18 years ago

    What a beautiful bench and a wonderful place to sit and remember all your times with your sister.I'm sure she is smiling down on you.God Bless You ...annie

  • 18 years ago

    What a beautiful place to sit and remember all the great times you shared with your sister.

    I have a cousin who lost her battle with breast cancer last Christmas and I was thinking of making a memory box for her daughter. Thanks for posting your bench and reminding me that I need to get busy on it.

    Barb

  • 18 years ago

    Wow, that is an amazing memorial! (tears) big hugs to you Debbi and happy birthday Denise! very nice

  • 18 years ago

    That is just wonderful .

  • 18 years ago

    Beautiful! Beautiful bench, Beautiful way to remember your sister...

    ML

  • 18 years ago

    A beautiful tribute to your sister.

  • 18 years ago

    Debbi...
    It's lovely. Everything about the bench.. and the things you wrote are special gifts which honor your sister's life.. and the love within your family. Sending peaceful thoughts your way. :)
    Katie

  • 18 years ago

    Very special.............what a wonderful memorial for your sister..........beautiful bench...she is in God's rest now and looking down on you........peace be with you.

  • 18 years ago

    What a thoughtful and loving tribute to your sister! Bless you..

  • 18 years ago

    What a wonderful way to honor your sisters memory! My own mother moved on from this life due to breast cancer 5 years ago. Her birthday was Oct. 8th.
    I love your bench and would love to use your idea for my own memory garden.
    I dont know why but I never thought of doing something like that.
    Thank you for your inspiration!

  • 18 years ago

    What a wonderful thing to do, Debbi. And thanks for all that you shared with us. Very sweet, very meaningful. I think it is also wonderful that you and your husband participate in the "walk" every year. What a fantastic tribute all this is to your sister.

    AND....WOW! the bench is just beautiful. I love it.

  • 18 years ago

    Beautiful bench...what a beautiful memory for her. Brought tears to my eyes!!!

  • 18 years ago

    What a sweet and beautifully crafted memorial!

  • 18 years ago

    What a lovely tribute.

  • 18 years ago

    A wonderful bench, and a great memorial for your sister.I've been thinking of making a memorial garden for my mother, I'd love to see a picture of your bench in the garden,
    Cindy

  • 18 years ago

    Such a great tribute to your sis......beautiful job d3bbi!
    What a wondeful sister you are. Brought tears to my eyes too.

    Hazie

  • 18 years ago

    Nice, a great tribute. good job!!

    Maria

  • 18 years ago

    Oh how very sweet. The bench is absolutely BEAUTIFUL, and your flowers make it such a happy little bench. Like KLINGER, I'd love to see it in the garden setting.

  • 18 years ago

    Happy Birthday Denise! Deb: a wonderful way to keep her in your heart till you are with her again!!! Bless You! Jane

  • 18 years ago

    Thanks everyone for your sentiments. Denise was such a special person; I learned so much about living as she traveled through this journey in her life.

    Linlee, you are more than welcome to borrow my idea.

    Here is a photo of the garden when we laid it out this spring. It's raining outside now so can't take a current photo. On the right side of the bench is a pink rose given to me after her death. It has a bud on it today. : ) On the left is a plant given to us by my daughter's inlaws. I replanted it and it is thriving. The center is the bowl that Denise gave me. I have a ceramic angel sitting in it.

    Here is a link that might be useful: {{!gwi}}

  • 18 years ago

    Very nice!

  • 18 years ago

    I can just imagine how this w/look w/the plants all grown up and everything in place. What a wonderful project.

  • 18 years ago

    What a terrific and theraputic project! Absoultely beautiful!

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