I seem to stall and have serious issues deciding at every step. And then I ask for help/advice/opinions from you guys. I think this is the last decision to make - lighting.

I have included pics of the render that you guys have seen 1000 times by now of my new kitchen followed by a glimpse of the real thing, partially installed (if it shows up, it's having issues in the preview)...and then my top lighting choices. I will have the chandelier over the table in the dining room and 3 pendants over the island.

The candle ones are more risky, eh? Is it trendy? I want the feel to be soft and homespun and warm. I am concerned it will come off as harsh or cold or Phantom of the Opera-ish or too contemporary. But my designer said this piece will be stunning with a capital S in my dining room and I do trust her and there is something in me that really does like this chandelier.

My concern with the shaded one is that it will be boring/everyday. But I have some cream-shaded lamps in our bedroom on our nightstands and I just adore them. Every day for the last 10 years. I never tire of them. Cream shades are so yummy to me and definately feel soft and homespun. This option is also about $400 cheaper.

Can I solicit some opinions?

render:

Candle chandelier and pendant:

Shaded chandelier and pendant (or some pendant along these lines):