Picking out lighting is giving me anxiety! I just can't decide or find what I want for the price I want to spend. So please give me opinions...

Here are pictures of the kitchen in the "only a mother could love" stage.

I want to put some sort of lighing over the windows. We are going to be putting a oak valance over the top of the windows along the ceiling. I just can't decided on the lighting and I have to decide before my husband decides to put up fluorescant bars under the valances. Sorry for all the links.

This:

http://www.lightinguniverse.com/products/view.aspx?sku=1768613&linkLoc=catalog

This:

http://www.lightinguniverse.com/products/view.aspx?family=208464&linkLoc=related

or This:

http://cgi.ebay.com/2-shades-Pendant-Lighting-Light-Fixture-New-IN610l-2_W0QQitemZ250252946860QQihZ015QQcategoryZ103438QQtcZphotoQQcmdZViewItemQQ_trksidZp1742.m153.l1262

Or something completely different in which case I need I ideas.

Also 2 lights over our elevated bar.

I love both of these:

http://cgi.ebay.com/PENDANT-HANGING-CEILING-LIGHT-LIGHTING-INZ345L-11_W0QQitemZ260150307097QQihZ016QQcategoryZ29510QQtcZphotoQQcmdZViewItemQQ_trksidZp1742.m153.l1262

and

http://www.potterybarn.com/products/p3442/index.cfm?pkey=clgthngpen