What style is the house? You want the colors to be true to the architectural heritage.

What to you mean by "original stain" on the wood trim. What kind of wood is it? What stain?

Pine hardwood floors sound beautiful. Are they going to be stained or just protected with clear coat.

The Red stain maple cabinets with the pine floor sounda like you want a Country motif? Modern? You don't like Black but what about a Graphite?

Hi dilly dally,
I'll answer the best I can and I'll also post a link to some photos. I'm not sure I have all the answers because this is my first home and I'm still learning a lot. :)
-Colonial built in 1900
-There's a picture of the moulding in the photobucket album
-The pine is covered in linoleum glue, but we've been told it can be saved. It appears to be a warm yellowish when it's clean. I never considered staining it, but would be open to the idea if it made my colors work together better.
-I definitely don't like modern decor. I chose this house because I love all the charming little details, like mullion windows and pocket doors. I don't want my house to look entirely antiquated, though, and hope to blend old and new while maintaining the charm.
I hope this helps you help me. :)
Thanks!
Katie

Here is a link that might be useful: Photobucket album

Here's a list of kitchens that have dark colored cabinets. You might want to look through it and see what colors they used on the walls and countertops.

Laurie

Here is a link that might be useful: dark colored cabinets