Oh my... that support beam! This island is terrible. I'd talk to an architect pronto.

Money+steel.

Removing that is going to cost - a lot. Get professional help before you do anything else if it really bothers you. It's a beautiful kitchen.

Paint it the light color that's in the countertop.

Not saying you want copper, but see this copper counter which is fine with organic shiny metal backsplash in same kitchen.... in other words, what about a custom wrap of some kind?

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Agree an awkward place for the support beam, yet unfortunately not uncommon. Consult a licensed general contractor and see if an agreeable solution can be met removing the column and replacing with a structural beam in ceiling. For a more rustic effect continue with exposed beams. Can be an expensive endeavor, but worth the overall finished product. Our industry is blessed with many fabulous innovative contractors. Modern/Rustic? The ideal solution is to consult with an experienced local interior designer who can eyeball all your existing finish materials that you approve and thus give you viable solutions as well as suggestions regarding the column!