I am having my roof redone in charcoal. I also need to repaint the exterior and need help. B/c my house is a ranch it appears very small from the front but opens up on the side & rear (pics attached). One person recommended painting BM kendall charcoal with revere pewter on shutters and white dove on trim. I was told that a darker color will make the house appear taller and not so squatty. Another person recommended BM harbor gray with witching hour on shutters. I want to stay in the gray family as we have had some stone work done and would like to stay in that color family. Please help!