Nevermind. My husband just told me he doesn't like it. Any other thoughts on a table style that might work here? I'd like oak and something a bit traditional, even though my style is generally really eclectic. I don't want anything trendy.

lavender, he told me that he has bad associations involving that style of table. He can't disconnect the actual table from the types of environments he saw them in. I get that. It can be hard to get past negative emotions we associate with certain material objects.

So, I guess it's back to square one. Here are some photos of the current table. With the table centered under the light, there's only 21" between the edge of the island and the chair and we have to walk between those all the time.

The table doesn't look too big in this one, but it really is cramped between the chair and island and at the patio door. From the hall door, looking into the kitchen:

Don't know if it's possible, but could a woodworker cut your table down if you can't find what you like?

Maybe you could look for something with a painted finish? It might be enough to disconnect your DH from the negative memories.

Since you say only one or two set at this table at a time why not move two of the chairs against the wall on either side of the sliding glass door, or under the picture on it's right?

It's a beautiful table and you're right, the photos don't make it look incredibly cramped. II have a 42" round table from World Market that's held up wonderfully as a weeknight kid dinner & homework spot: http://www.worldmarket.com/product/cooper-round-dining-table.do?&from=fn

Alternatively, it's not oak, but people love the Ikea Docksta: http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/40063632/

Thanks for the ideas and suggestions. My DH said he might be able to go for the CL table if I paint it. I think I'd just paint the base and apron cream and leave or refinish the top.

It's funny how the pictures look versus the reality. The current table is truly about 10" too large for the space and dominates it. I tried scooting it over in the direction of the painting, but it makes the entry into the family room at bit too narrow. I'm sure the dark stain contributes to the heavy, oversized feel too. It's a pretty table, but not great quality - the whole top shakes when bumped or when something is set down hard.

smalloldhouse, I like the World Market table. How long have you had yours?

We've had ours for about 2 years, maybe a bit more. It has seen its fair share of art projects etc and seems pretty bulletproof.

I like your table better. I was thinking what justgottabeme suggested.