Are you asking for colors to paint your current cabinets, or are you choosing brand new cabinets (et al)?

Are you planning on keeping the existing flooring?

@Workhorse Design Build I'd say yes, since she said "We are trying to match our oak floors"...

Thanks, then I would look into cooling down the warm tones in the floors to add contrast and go with a grey wood stain. Counter top in a white as well as white backspalsh.

Putting together a kitchen color palette can be challenging!
Here is a great article that might help: Kitchen
Color Palette