Help please?

Do you have photos? It would help. If you're unwilling to separate the sections, an you move the bed or use a t.v. mount that allows full-motion?

I think it would defeat the purpose and look of a 4 poster bed to have to cut down the post to accommodate a TV. If there is no way to angle the bed of TV so you view it all from the bed, then maybe it is best to have a plain bed or watch tv in another room. Is the problem when he is on one side of the bed rather than in the middle, or it a problem no matter where on the bed the viewer is? It is only my opinion, but I think the two are not really compatible at all. Good luck.

Here is a 4 post bed with two tall and two short posts. How does this look?

I saw beds like the one posted above me last week when I was visiting my daughter and we went furniture shopping. In fact, we saw a couple of beds where you could choose to have all four posters the same size or you could go with very short posters at the end of the bed.