The gray roof means brown trim is not a great idea. The shingle siding should stay natural - trim would be fun in crisp romaine or a muted blue green . . . test also http://www.benjaminmoore.com/en-us/paint-color/polishedslate

I like the whitish trim you currently have along the roofline. It looks nice with the roof color.

Are you painting the body of the house? The railing?

Looks like the body of the house is logs, emmarene. Doubt it should be painted!

I noticed it was logs but I was wondering where the tannish gray was intended to go as mentioned by the OP. Perhaps just the gables but they look tan now.

The body is log siding not actually logs. We are most likely going with a solid color stain because of all the damage from the previous owner not having gutters installed and neglect,not sure it can be brought back enough,to just apply stain.

Do the gables have shingles?

Here is Sherwin Williams Summerhouse Beige, what do you think?

Not sure on grey or tan for the body,I keep going back and forth.

The orchard is Filbert trees which belong to the neighbor.

Try growing a flowering creeper up your porch posts . . . and across the balcony railing . . something you can prune viciously in winter but always comes back. You can hang stainless steel cable on eye bolts to run along /adjacent to the posts so the creeper hangs off the cable instead of the wood if you have concerns. Would like to see the braces on the lower porch added at 90 degrees to the balcony gable posts for continuity. Since it is a log house, I wouldn't do shutters, but I might suggest a big wagon wheel for the wall where the turquoise settee is now . .. . possibly paint/stain the deck stair risers and fascia to match the painted railing and posts . . so it doesn't weather out