Here's a pic of him, he looks so sad! I left for winter break and this is what happened. It's an indoor, I live in San Francisco so very cold out right now. I'm trying to put him outside during the sunlight days. When I first got it the lady at the store pulled down old leaves and so I did that and now the stalk is skinny and unsupportive. I tried to stop but now leaves that I even trim back are curling and brown before falling off and limp. Help please!