Hi. Could you post some images for us? If you don't know how, read the New to Kitchens thread.

The cabinets will all be changed to an off white shaker door. It is a nice size kitchen with an attached dining area. The only thing that is staying is the floor and the stainless appliances. The walls are painted BM pashmina and the crown, base and ceilings are all BM Navajo white. Crisco insisted on being in the pictures :)

Look at river white or snowflake granite.

Do you have a photo of the new door color? Your other finishes look on my screen like they lean more taupey gray than blue gray.

Having said that, we could throw out granite names, but unless your stoneyard has that granite, it won't really help. Even if it has slabs of that granite, they might look totally different from what we suggested.

Maybe think about whether you want your granite to contrast or blend. (I think a darker counter could be striking here, but you might not. I had a dark counter and when I refreshed our kitchen, I predictably swung to a light granite, Colonial White. I just was tired of contrast.)

I'd search kitchen photos with off white cabinets, and pay attention to any patterns in the kitchens you like especially the contrast/monotone issue.

Or just try and match Crisco, who is gorgeous!

Yes my colors definitely lean towards the taupe grey, rather than the blue grey. I think because everything is light, I might like a contrast. I just came back from the yard and I think in my price range I am going to go with the Steele grey in the honed finish. Crisco says "thank you"