I did one of these. sand down the down the top and sides (80,150,220 grits) stain the top. paint the base either a black or a white. use chalk paint. 2-3 coats. sand on the final coat to where it's smooth. buff w/clear wax. you could also paint it with this

Pinterest, search, "paint oak dining table" or "redo round oak table"

Put some farm house fun in to it! https://www.houzz.com/photos/kirtling-tower-limed-oak-kitchen-traditional-dining-room-london-phvw-vp~2134521

If the chairs are staying a chipped white farmhouse feel. Not seeing the rest of the home not sure if this is too rustic for you.

If it's good wood and not a veneer, I'd refinish the wood.

Thank y’all for your ideas!! I’ll post a picture when it’s done!