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8 years ago
last modified: 8 years ago

There’s lots of work going on in my garden. It all started with receiving the wonderful gift of some rare and special roses from Cliff’s Low Desert Garden. With the help of Cliff, I also chose a few roses for my daughter’s best friend, Sarah. I had been ill for a while, and was having trouble planting everything, especially since I was already behind with pruning and maintenance. As a wonderful surprise gift, Sarah sent me a check to have someone plant the new roses! I was humbled and grateful to her for thinking of me. This past weekend I had Javier ( the man who removed my hedge and planted roses for me before) come. Javier had noticed before that the wood holding my slope back was deteriorating, and soil was sliding into the bed below. First he came during the week to see what needed planting. On Friday afternoon, he showed up unexpectedly and dropped off a bunch of wood from another job. I was confused. With my few words of Spanish, and his broken English, he explained that he received the wood for free, and that he planned to replace the old wood. I explained that the money was for planting the roses, and that I just wasn’t in a position to have the “wall” done right now. I was very surprised when he said, “Es no problem, Senorita. Me so happy your Daddy hire me to come every week to his house, from you tell him I good worker. I do for you.” Well, this is true. I did recommend him to my parents, now that my dad is slowing down, and needs someone in the yard. My father pays him well, and has mentioned to him that when all my roses are planted, he has another job for Javier. That job will be putting in my drip irrigation.

I feel overwhelmed by blessings! First Ingrid so kindly offered me my dream rose, ‘Annie Laurie McDowell’, which I hope to pick up next week. Then Cliff reduced his rose garden, and gave away some really special roses. I lucked out, and BOTH my sons were able to go with me twice to go dig them up, two hours away, all day digging. Then Sarah sent some of her mother’s inheritance money to various charities that were dear to her mother’s heart(animals), and included me, for being her “other mother”. Then Javier did far more than just plant roses, to show his gratitude for the steady income at my parents, and the prospect of putting in my drip irrigation. ( He’s insisted that I don’t show my Dad his work here, until he finishes it up. He really wants to impress him, although I told him we WILL be hiring him for the irrigation, regardless.)

That’s my long winded story of what’s been happening around here. I’ve finally shovel pruned my first roses! Those that were poor performers could stay while I had the space, but not when I had “more important” roses to plant. Winchester Cathedral, The Pilgrim, and Claire Rose are gone. My virused Mary Rose is gone. Brilliant Pink Iceberg is supposed to be gone, but again that root must go down to China, so we’ll see. Oh yes, Queen of Sweden is gone. I had to run to Home Depot three times during the work, and before I left I wisely hid ‘Louise Clements’ inside my house. I didn’t want a repeat of the last time. (Same guy) I really need to send her to her new home.

I should have taken some “before” pictures. What I have now are “in progress” pictures. My beds had become a jumble of overgrown annuals, perennials, and weeds. I’ve got one shot that will give you an idea of what was going on, before.

Same spot shown below, this morning. He did take some liberty pruning my Duchesse de Brabant, and he tore out some precious plants along with the undesirables. I tried to rescue as many as possible. I know a block retaining wall would be ideal here, but it’s just not in the budget.

Alnwick Castle a few days ago, below.

And now, shown below. Probably will cut the posts down even with the rest of the wood. I’m still deciding if I could use them like that for something.

Ran out of paint here, but I did go get more.

A shot of the shady side of the slope.

Comice de Tarn-et-Garonne settling into ‘The Pilgrim’s’ former spot. She was heavily sprayed and drenched, so she has some residue on her leaves, but I wanted to be extra careful about bug transmission.

I have buckets and buckets of plants I’m hoping to save that were in his way. I found them in his rubbish pile:(

Haha! I just noticed my Sloggers in this picture. I live in these shoes. Anyway that’s whats been going on here, a lot of hard work. I’m exhausted from the weekend, but very thankful for everything. I mean really, for all the sad things in the world, I have so many wonderful people in my life. I have so much to be thankful for! Lisa

Comments (75)

  • 8 years ago
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    Rosylady, it is so wonderful to have a great person to help with your garden

    I am sure he is learning a lot from you. He sure does a great job :) your garden is really beautiful . And I can't wait for roses to grow and be in bloom.:)

    Lisa, your garden is coming out beautifully. Javier, is doing hell of a job and I am so excited for you. The white paint is going to have a beautiful contrast and makes it looks clean and huge .I absolutely love it very,very much. I love your garden and can't wait for more pics as your roses grow and bloom :)

    Jin

    Lisa Adams thanked Plumeria Girl (Florida ,9b)
  • 8 years ago

    Your not high jacking, Roselady. It’s great to have a nice helper, isn’t it? I’m alone most of the time, and I also feel comfortable having Javier here. He’s obviously crazy about his wife and two little boys, a real family man. I was always nervous about having someone here with me home alone.

    Thanks, Jin! I’m mostly resting this week, but still getting little jobs done. I know you’ve been hard at work, too:)

    Here’s “my” Javier. Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    Nipstress....I agree with what you said about sharing our rose growing knowledge with our garden helpers, and that they will hopefully pass it on to their other clients. Jose was shocked to know there were different types of roses other than hybrid teas. He is interested in learning about the different ways to prune each type...although he seems doubtful about the idea of only lightly pruning certain roses:)

    Jin...Thank you! There are so many new gardens on this forum...it will be so fun to watch them grow and bloom! I'm looking forward to seeing your roses in your garden too.

    Lisa...are you planning on training a rose along the white wall?

    Lisa Adams thanked Rosylady (PNW zone 8)
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    Rosy and Lisa, beautiful pics of both men Jose and Javier at work. And Jose is so sweet to take roses to his mom. I wanted to say that but slip out of my mind...lol

    Jin

    Lisa, I am really excited about your garden and the way you can see the transformation is so inspiring esp to me.

    Lisa Adams thanked Plumeria Girl (Florida ,9b)
  • 8 years ago

    You ladies are so blessed to have such great garden help.

    My garden guy is kind of a dud but Im married to him and he works cheap so what am I gonna do?

    Lisa Adams thanked Kristine LeGault 8a pnw
  • 8 years ago

    Ha! I’m married to my mow-blow-go-pick-up-the-dog-poop guy. ;-) No other help here either, But I really love reading these stories. Having more help would be nice, but I think I would rather pay someone to wash the dishes and do the laundry while I play in the dirt. ;-)

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  • 8 years ago

    Cori Ann, I agree if I had the money to hire someone it would be a cook.

    Lisa Adams thanked Kristine LeGault 8a pnw
  • 8 years ago
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    Kristine, I can't stop laughing at your comment that your garden helper is kind of a dud but you're married to him, LOL!!! He sounds like a great guy in spite of any lack of gardening enthusiasm!

    Lisa Adams thanked lavenderlacezone8
  • 8 years ago

    I had a good laugh too, Kristine! That’s really funny! I’m “husbandless”, so it’s a real treat to have someone do the heavy physical things that I can’t. I sure wish I could afford to hire him on a regular basis, but it’s wonderful having him every once in a while, when I really need help.

    I do plan to train several things along the white wall. I just haven’t decided what, yet. I definitely like the idea of wire between the posts, and using the wire. That leaves me more space for companion plants with the roses. Some roses and/or plants can be planted behind the white wall and either be trained up, or cascade down against the white wall. Others can be planted in the bed in front of the white wall, and be trained and tied to the posts or wire strung between the posts. I’m so glad I told Javier to leave the posts uncut for a few days, while I thought it over. He asked, and was ready to use his skill saw to cut them even with the wall. I felt like I needed to look at them a while and get a good picture in my mind of what those posts could be used for. Suncoast and Cori Ann suggested the wire between the posts for training roses on. My big “Prince Charles” Clematis is going around on post. I have a 3 year old “Pink Prosperity” Hybrid Musk rose that might like being trained along the shadier side of the white wall. She’s been in a half barrel for WAY too long. I wonder if she’d be a good candidate for the wire training in part shade? I feel like I have a whole new garden to work in! I still have “Annie Laurie McDowell” and “Wild Edric” coming from Ingrid, when I go to her house next week. Also, whenever Angel Gardens is ready to ship, “September Morn” and “Sui Mei Ren” are coming. I certainly have a lot to be excited about! I feel so much renewed interest in my garden. This all couldn’t have come at a better time. I have been struggling with feeling down lately, and this new project WITH the help has been just what I needed. Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    I've so enjoyed reading this thread and about various garden helpers ("duds" included), roses being planted upside down and just the "life happens" experiences of everyone here. Lisa, I'm thrilled that your soil is so wonderful which will greatly support what I can see is going to be a spectacular garden. It's fantastic that you've had an able and willing helper in a project that you never could have handled on your own. You deserve every bit of that. I have a feeling that my less than stellar Wild Edric and Annie Laurie McDowell will explode into their full potential in your rich soil. They're probably eagerly waiting for momma to get them and rescue them from this awful, arid place.

    Lisa Adams thanked ingrid_vc so. CA zone 9
  • 8 years ago

    I guess I should qualify that while gardening is not his forte hes a darn good husband and he built us a really nice and put in lots of great irrigation for me.

    I agree this has been a really good thread with lots of exciting things happening I can't get over someone planting roses upside down that's Hysterical

    Lisa Adams thanked Kristine LeGault 8a pnw
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    I'm also married to my 'help'. I do have 2 boys that help me out in the yard. My dd would rather die than do yard work.

    I wouldn't mind having someone who came to do dishes. In fact, in our house everyone hates the dishes lol.

    I love to cook so I would never hire a cook. I'm too obsessive about it lol.

    Lisa Adams thanked sultry_jasmine_nights (Florida-9a-ish)
  • 8 years ago

    You will have to come visit your roses, Ingrid. I hope they will be happy here. Kristine, your hubby sounds like a keeper. We need all types in this world. It wouldn’t be good, if everyone wanted to be only a gardener:)

    I have few blooms, but I cherish what I do have. Duchesse de Brabant’s blooms a large and bright in the less intense sunlight.

    “The Faun” is also much more vibrant than usual.

    Even Duchesse de Brabant’s buds are a brilliant hot pink. (Sorry about the wounded hand. I didn’t notice until now:)

    The miniature daffodils are blooming at the stump of the sawed off Queen palm, while clematis “Florida Seboldii” begins climbing with promises of lovely blooms to come.

    Probably my most treasured non-rose plant, “Paeonia cambessedesii”. It looks like only one bud again, this year.

    I’ve forgotten the name of these cute little bulbs. I’ll have to look it up and edit this. Something like, “Ipheone unipholium”, but not quite.

    The last of Darcey Bussell with geranium ‘Bill Wallis’. Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    I would like to hire someone to put in paver walkways .

    I would definitely hire a cook . My favorite part of a cruise is sitting down to a dinner that I didn' cook, serve and won't have to clean up after. I don't even care if it is PBJ


    Lisa Adams thanked Kristine LeGault 8a pnw
  • 8 years ago

    Lisa. Beautiful

    I love your little lavender bulbs, and Darcy, wow!!

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  • 8 years ago

    Looking superb, Lisa! XO

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    Lisa, the little blue flower is Ipheion uniflorum, Star Flower. I had to look it up. The spelling is tricky.

    Cath

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  • 8 years ago

    Lisa, I'll be air-mailing you those two plants. After seeing the loveliness of your garden (those daffodils!) there is no way I'm letting you set foot on my grungy property. Just kidding, I'll swallow my pride and you can admire my bare sticks where the rabbits have chewed off the leaves. They've never done it before to this extent but there is no fresh greenery for them to eat without winter rains.

    Lisa Adams thanked ingrid_vc so. CA zone 9
  • 8 years ago
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    Thank you, Kristine. I’d like some flagstone pathways, myself! Thanks, Darren. I’m glad you like it. It’s definitely less “wild” looking, now. It does take some getting used to. Each day I discover something else missing, it seems. It’s a chance for a start fresh in some spots, where I wouldn’t have had the heart to yank things myself.

    Thank you for identifying my star flowers, Cath. I always forget what they’re called. The foliage smells of onions when bruised. They are definitely a low maintenance bulb for warm climates.

    Ingrid, I have to laugh! If you only knew of the things I’m NOT showing! I’m a master at taking careful pictures that hide the ugly spots, and only show what I want you to see. Sometimes exhaustion overtakes me as soon as I drag out all my supplies, and I must leave everything “as is”, and go lay down. Things are not lovely everywhere, all the time. That’s just how it is. Please don’t worry a bit about what things look like at your place when I visit. If things are too perfect, I’ll be nervous about you coming over to see my garden. There’s no perfection or judgement here:) Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    Lisa, your yard looks so amazing! I can’t get over how good the white retaining wall looks! Javier did an awesome job. Javier accidentally ripping up plants reminds me of my gardener Freddie. Remember when you told me I had a Japanese maple and I didn’t even know it? Freddie kept trimming it into a long rectangular shape so it was unrecognizable :)

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  • 8 years ago

    Xxxx

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  • 8 years ago

    I’m SO glad you commented, my sweet “other daughter from another mother.” Sarah, it is your generosity, with your mother’s gift, that made this possible. Your mother’s giving spirit was obviously passed down to you. I can’t help but think she’d be pleased, with what’s going on around her, and her Gardenia tree. I SO appreciate her/your gift to me. As much as I appreciate this, the most wonderful gift your mother ever gave me was you.

    You are the sister my daughter never had, as I only provided her with two pesky younger brothers. You’ve been part of our family since you were a child, and now your children are like my grandchildren. You’ve been on countless family vacations with us, visited me in the hospital, more times than I can count, and cared for me after surgeries and through illnesses. You dressed me and did my hair on the day we buried my husband, when I was incapable. You yourself, are your mother’s greatest gift.

    I love you as my own, Sarah. I’m thrilled that I’ve been able to pass down my love of roses down to to you! We will have to work on the “other daughter of mine”:)

    Every morning while I have my coffee, Dexter still visits your mom under her gardenia tree.....

    Love you, Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    Lisa, that made me cry. Sara sounds like true gift and Im sure she feels the same way about you.

    Thank you for Sharing your heart

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  • 8 years ago

    Lisa, that post needs a tearjerker alert! How lovely that you have each other.

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  • 8 years ago

    Tears here too, Lisa. I can't say more, but the picture of Dexter lying close to your friend is so very poignant. You've gone through more pain and heartbreak than anyone should have to bear.

    Lisa Adams thanked ingrid_vc so. CA zone 9
  • 8 years ago

    Love love love this thread :))

    Lisa's words illustrate what gardening (and roses) are truly about for me: remembrance, love, and bringing people together...whether online or in the "real world".

    Lisa Adams thanked Rosylady (PNW zone 8)
  • 8 years ago

    Oh my goodness - I've been busy for a few days and have so much to catch up on! I've only skimmed the comments so far (I will go back to read them all properly!) - but just wanted quickly to say - how exciting, Lisa, about your garden - it's looking so wonderful already! And that is so lovely about your "helpers" - I sometimes feel very cynical and jaded (especially when you read yet another horrible story in the media about some other terrible thing someone has done) - but then when I read stories like yours, it restores my faith in humanity :-) I can't wait to see your garden progress. Oh - that Duchess de Brabant is GORGEOUS!! I've researched her and wondered if I could grow her (don't know yet if anyone in WA sells her) - but I don't think I have the space, sadly.

    Oh, oh - but I LOVE those little purple flowers on the "cute bulbs" - I want some too!!! If you do find out what they're called, I'd love to know so I can see if I can get them here.

    Rosylady - I loved hearing about your "help" too ! So nice to find out more about everyone's gardens.

    OMG, Kristine - your comment about being married to your "garden dud" is hilarious!!! I'm married to a dud too ;-)

    OK, will pop back later to read the thread properly!

    ~ HY

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  • 8 years ago

    I thought you all might like to see my girls. Here are two pictures. In each picture, one is the bride, and the other her maid/matron of honor. The best of friends since childhood, one my daughter by birth, the other my daughter by love.


    Sarah and Ingrid. Sarah and Willie’s wedding. · More Info
    Sarah the Bride, and Ingrid the Matron of Honor.


    Ingrid and Sarah. Ingrid and Corey’s wedding. · More Info
    Ingrid the Bride, and Sarah the Maid of Honor.

    I sure love my girls! Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    They really look like sisters. It is a true blessing that you are all so close.

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  • 8 years ago

    Lovely girls, Lisa. You should be very proud of them.

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  • 8 years ago

    Lisa, they are beautiful and they do look like sisters. I feel as if I known them :)

    Beautiful women. Thank you for sharing. Haha I love it :)

    Jin

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  • 8 years ago

    Did Sarah pick up her roses, yet? I bet she will love them. It was a great pick and I still remembered you got some from Cliff's.

    Jin

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  • 8 years ago

    Thanks, all. They are both as beautiful on the inside as they are on the outside, and I couldn’t love them more.

    Jin, Sarah has not picked up up her roses yet. She’s waiting until she can make the trip with the proper vehicle and the weather won’t be so cold in Bakersfield that it will shock her Gardenia standard containing her mother’s ashes. ( We think Dexter will miss Deb:) I’m rather glad she’s waiting, because we had a freak Santa Ana right after digging them out, and they turned crispy. They are finally recovering, and I’m hoping they look better by the time she comes. We are having another Santa Ana event today, but this is a very cold one! 53F is really cold for us with high winds. We did get a sprinkle of rain last night, but the wind quickly dried it up.

    Saturday, I went to our local Grangetto’s and saw a new display of native plants, that require little to no summer water once established. I grabbed a few. I was especially excited to find Trichostema lanatum “Woolly Blue Curls”. I had tried several years in a row to germinate the seed, unsuccessfully.

    It will grow into a small bush, perfect for my slope. It will take the place of one of the Canary Island Lavenders that Javier inexplicably removed. Here’s what it looks like now.

    And a close up of the “ Woolly Blue Curls” flowers.

    Goodness, it’s so windy I had a hard time taking the above photo. Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    This story has touched me deeply. Thank you for sharing something so personal and human; it does help restore a bit of faith in humanity and relationships. It seems almost anything is possible with love.

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  • 8 years ago

    Lisa, your two girls are lovely, and their inner beauty shines from their eyes. Lovely bouquets, now that I'm taking a second look.

    That "Wooly Blue Curls" is adorable. I really love the color and fuzziness.


    Lisa Adams thanked ingrid_vc so. CA zone 9
  • 8 years ago

    Thanks, Vap and Ingrid. They have both brought me so much joy.

    Ingrid, I'm really looking forward to tomorrow! I can't believe the day has finally come for us to meet. It looks like I'll have to dress warmly. This wind is really cold! (For us wimpy So CA folks) Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    Haha, Lisa, you guys are not wimpy...come here in winter and you will see many of us dress like Eskimos in 60 degrees weather...n when it goes lower you will hear us Grambling... lol

    Wooly blue curls are so cute. Did you said Canary Islands ? Every flower is so cute from Spain..

    Remember, I talk to you about the Islands near Spain and I could not remember the name..... about Foxgloves. That's it .. Spanish foxgloves from Canary Islands.

    Okay, I am super tired working in my never ending backyard. Think I am having muscles build up....hahaha

    Jin

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  • 8 years ago

    Get a selfie

    Lisa Adams thanked Kristine LeGault 8a pnw
  • 8 years ago

    Jin, the Woolly Blue Curls are California natives, but the lavender Javier removed was from the Canary Islands. I’m down to just one now, from three. Gopher killed one, Javier the second, and hopefully the third will last many more years. I really like it. It’s dark and drizzling now, so I can’t take a picture of it. It actually hailed a few minutes ago! My phone says 0% chance of rain. So odd.

    Kristine, do you mean tomorrow with Ingrid? I sure will! Lisa

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    Such a rare sight here!

    Genuine Frost! It’s been a while since I’ve seen any. I’m glad my sweet peas don’t mind. Lisa


  • 8 years ago

    Here too. I made sure to water everything well yesterday and moved my avocado tree close to the house last night, where there is no frost. The young and tender citrus all seem fine. The frost wasn’t really enough here to do too much. It’s already melted. As it melts it’s wetting the soil a bit, so.... yay!

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  • 8 years ago

    Mine melted away quickly too, Cori Ann. Tonight the low is predicted to be 38F, so not as cold. I actually had hail for a minute around 6pm, last night. We also had a small rain shower around 5:30pm. It wasn’t much, but I’ll take anything I can get.

    I’m sorry to say, that Ingrid just called to postpone today’s visit. She’s come down with a nasty cold, and sounded all hoarse and stuffed up, poor girl. We are going to see how she feels on Thursday or Friday, and try then. I hope you rest, and feel better soon, Ingrid. Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    Glad to hear you got a little rain Lisa, even if it is just that. Hoping for nice slow soaking rains to head your way.

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  • 8 years ago

    Thank you, Karen. We actually have a 50% chance of rain on Thursday and Friday. As much as I want the rain, those are the two days Ingrid and I are hoping to get together. We’ve set a date several times now, and something always prevents it from happening at the last minute, either on her end or mine. Every time they predict rain lately, we don’t get any. I have a funny feeling we might get it this time, just because Ingrid and I have plans:) We sure need it, though. Like I said, I’ll take what I can get. I’m sure the rest of the Californians here feel the same.... Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    They are both just stunning young ladies! What a blessing to have a life long friend/sister-by-choice!

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  • 8 years ago

    Thank you, Suncoast. They are both truly a joy. I’m so glad that Sarah has caught “the rose bug”! I’m thinking I can get my daughter, Ingrid into roses soon, too. They bought a house, and have been remodeling it for a long time, now. I think when they can finally move into it, and she has a yard of her own, it will just be a matter of time. She doesn’t really stand a chance, with me AND Sarah into roses now, does she? :) I know just the perfect house warming gift! Lisa

  • 8 years ago

    I hope your Annie loves her new location. I needed to move mine but did not have the time-energy-etc and now she is about to explode in new growth. She is a good 6' tall and 4'-5' wide


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  • 8 years ago

    Wonderful post, thanks so much for sharing the joy!

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  • 8 years ago

    Thank you both! I hope my ALMD is happy here. She has a prime spot, so she should be. Lisa