Benjamin Moore Sandy White, closest thing to a sandy color I found when I was looking years ago. Is kinda yellow however. Maybe Benjamin Moore Sandy Beaches?

Thanks, Sandy Beaches looks like a definite possibility (also sandy shore) I will buy some samples tomorrow. It's a tough room, want the wall color to read cozy but not dark enough to compete with the navy.

Try BM ballet white

ajrmcr, I am embarrassed to admit that when I read "ballet white" I thought "that won't be warm enough" , but I googled it and it looks amazing in the sample room/ images I found! Definitely going on the list (hoping that it looks the same way in my room that it does on my monitor!) Thanks

BM White Sand, although it might be lighter than what you are looking for