..Sigh

I understand that nature has a cycle. I am beyond fed up with one insects cycle. so much so I am considering digging up 6 Crepe Myrtles and giving up my dreams of a nice yard. I planted 3 Natchez crepe myrtles in my backyard this spring. One day I noticed a JB on one leaf, once I researched what it was I immediately purchased neem oil and sprayed all my trees. This is my first year ever seeing one,& now like typical JB behavior the bastard Called his friends and I get to watch them fly over to my yard between 12-3 daily. My kids are afraid to go outside and play because these things have flown into them by mistake plenty of times.... In addition to that some fake out lady bug has arrived and the cherry on top Wasps! I see wasps are associated with a honeydew aphids leave. I see no aphids activity however. I have done the soap in a bucket thing but honestly it’s not slowing activity much and again I have 3 kids, I’m not able to do this daily 2-3 times a day. Somebody, anybody.

HELP!