I'm looking for a light grey to use on the interior of my entire house. This is new construction, I need to pick a paint that's light and neutral. I don't want white, and I don't like beige. I'm thinking a light neutral grey.

The floors are a white oak, we're still looking for a stain, but it'll be a medium stain, golden oak or something similar. Open to other stain ideas but we want something medium or maybe lighter, and neutral.

Kitchen cabinets are kraftmaid dove white uppers and midnight lowers.

Countertop is Infinity White quartzite. I don't have a great picture of the slab, but posting the pictures I do have, some of them it looks more yellow than it is, others it looks bluer. It's basically a cool white/grey with hints of blue.

I went and bought some SW and BM paint samples and put them on the walls - but can go back and get more if these aren't great options. Paint samples I already have:

SW: Repose Grey, Agreeable Grey, Worldly Grey - I kinda like Repose the best so far.

BM: Abalone, Edgecomb Grey, Grey Owl, Revere Pewter, Moonshine - liked Abalone the best so far.

My question: Should I go get other grey paint samples to try? Does that stain - golden oak - seem like it'd work?